Losing weight is hard. People may say it's easy. They won't understand that a huge amount of discipline is needed. I've never been over weight but I've a friend who has about the same weight as you a year ago. She too met a guy, fell in love and got into a relationship. Despite knowing that the guy doesn't mind her weight. She wants the best for her guy. With dedication, discipline and support from friends. She did it and I'm proud of her. I strongly believe that you too, will hit your goal. I'll be waiting for your good news