Yeah a big part of a relationship is attraction. My ex and I were best friends for a while before we got together. We went out in a work group one night and I pulled this hot guy I'd fancied for a while. My friend vanished and I found out later spent the night talking to my boss threatening to kill himself. I felt so awful and guilty that we ended up getting together. I loved him as my best friend but was never attracted to him. The relationship ended badly ?
Plus you kinda dated him out of pity and fear that he would kill himself if you didn't. Coupled with the fact that you're not even physically attracted to the guy... It's not gonna turn out pretty. ? Sorry you went through that tho.
Why would you ever hook up with a guy that threatens to kill himself? That is the worst idea I have ever heard. What if he would have felt that way about something else, while you were sleeping next to him? That is asking for trouble.
Yeah I know it was a bad idea, I was young and stupid. Felt guilty that it was my fault for making him feel bad and I loved him as a friend. It was kinda my way of making things right. Doomed from the start I guess.
I'm just gonna put it out there idk if someone's already commented this but there is an old saying/myth that says basically that If two beautiful people have a child that child will be ugly. If two ugly people have a child that child will be beautiful. But if a beautiful person and an ugly person have a child their child will be ugly idk why I'm commenting on this thread honestly lol but I believe that man is a moron for sure and the judge who let him sue his wife over this is pretty idiotic as well. But you know people have sued others for ridiculous things all the time like one time a robber who tried to bust into a house fell through the um I believe it's called a sky light when it's on the roof of the house anyways he broke a few bones and such ended up suing the family he was gonna rob for not having a sturdy enough window and he won!!! so yeah people sue over stupid shit and win all the time ._. yay legal system lol