Pride

CSD is Christopher Street day.
Exactly 50 years ago there were police crimes against gay, trans, etc people, but they stood up and fought back.
Now I wonder why it isn’t more known, since it all started in New York. ?
 
I have tried to come out at different times but many times I have been shut down by loved ones so to make them happy I accepted that I was born a girl and so I have to be that.

However, just this past month I’ve told my closest friends that I want to start being identified as non-binary (them/they pronouns), until I understand if I am just non-binary or if I actually am a man (due to the past rejection I’m scared to fully come out). So I’ve been going to a LGBTQ group and I have talked to new friend from there about everything.

They really helped open my eyes about who I am, and washed away some insecurities that I have. Even though I have not fully came out as male yet. I am going to my first pride parade/celebration on the 15th and I’m really excited.

Happy pride everyone.
 
Amila said:
CSD is Christopher Street day.
Exactly 50 years ago there were police crimes against gay, trans, etc people, but they stood up and fought back.
Now I wonder why it isn’t more known, since it all started in New York. ?
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Oh interesting. Thank you for sharing, I just skimmed. That is odd, I've never heard of it before.
 
ColourfulRainbow said:
I have tried to come out at different times but many times I have been shut down by loved ones so to make them happy I accepted that I was born a girl and so I have to be that.

However, just this past month I’ve told my closest friends that I want to start being identified as non-binary (them/they pronouns), until I understand if I am just non-binary or if I actually am a man (due to the past rejection I’m scared to fully come out). So I’ve been going to a LGBTQ group and I have talked to new friend from there about everything.

They really helped open my eyes about who I am, and washed away some insecurities that I have. Even though I have not fully came out as male yet. I am going to my first pride parade/celebration on the 15th and I’m really excited.

Happy pride everyone.
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I hope you have an excellent time on your first pride celebration ? good luck with your discovery and having/making friends who accept you for you
 
_-iWednesdayDonutLikeYou-_ said:
Patty said:
Can you or firebends do a thread defining all of the Pride gifts?
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I don't have the time to do it today but if Hailey doesn't get on it, I can probably tomorrow. Kitten made a thread last year that if it isn't locked I can try and bump for now
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I will do it when I get off work.
 
Also I 'came out' to my parents as bisexual when I was 13 or 14 and it was also the same time I told them I was severely depressed and suicidal (then when I was brought to professionals I got diagnosed as bipolar af). I just completely unloaded during a mental breakdown. But it was good. They were overall pretty accepting.
 
Muschi said:
Also I 'came out' to my parents as bisexual when I was 13 or 14 and it was also the same time I told them I was severely depressed and suicidal (then when I was brought to professionals I got diagnosed as bipolar af). I just completely unloaded during a mental breakdown. But it was good. They were overall pretty accepting.
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That's nice that you were able to get the support early on, some people wait too late. I'm glad your parents are accepting of you ?
 
My family is not really religious but my parents where mostly born in the 50s where women had to take care of men. I tried telling my dad I didn't want to have children and instead wanted to adopt. Since I wanted to change my gender but this went on off/on for years. I never felt comfortable in my own body and I remember I wanted to be a boy when I was younger (like around 6). I was told i should have kids and I'd feel the joy of motherhood so I had to accept I was a girl. Every now and then I get these feelings I'm in the wrong body but I try to push past it. I feel really bad when my other family members feel they can't come out to me and that I won't be accepting of them since we were raised Christian. I just want my friends and family to know I'm here for them and I'll accept them for who they are since I love them for them.
 
ColourfulRainbow said:
I have tried to come out at different times but many times I have been shut down by loved ones so to make them happy I accepted that I was born a girl and so I have to be that.

However, just this past month I’ve told my closest friends that I want to start being identified as non-binary (them/they pronouns), until I understand if I am just non-binary or if I actually am a man (due to the past rejection I’m scared to fully come out). So I’ve been going to a LGBTQ group and I have talked to new friend from there about everything.

They really helped open my eyes about who I am, and washed away some insecurities that I have. Even though I have not fully came out as male yet. I am going to my first pride parade/celebration on the 15th and I’m really excited.

Happy pride everyone.
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Good luck and I know it's hard to come out to family when they reject you :( I'm glad you made friends who understand you but stay safe!!
 
Once upon a time I changed my ign to this one. Some people were amused, some people were offended, and most people just assume I'm a gay male.

That's my story
 
H0MOSEXUAL said:
Once upon a time I changed my ign to this one. Some people were amused, some people were offended, and most people just assume I'm a gay male.

That's my story
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You mean you aren't a gay male? My life is a lie
 
these stories warm my heart up. ?
i never really came out, just ended up developing feelings for a female friend back when i was in high school.
i decided to just accept that i’m interested in both men and women. 
 
I personally haven’t felt a need to come out. Mainly because I don’t like having to explain my sexuality whenever someone asks about it :/
 
All these stories are really nice to read ? I’m glad most people have had positive experiences.
 
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