Did you confront the person? How did it go? Once when I was younger (in middle school) I sent an email to my friend ranting about what I hated (about her). It didn't really end well.
Just tell her directly about what you think. I mean why do you even care if you're mean to her when you want her gone? If you hate her, why fear of being mean? Telling her directly I'm sorry but I've tried to do this, I've tried to tell myself I can do this but I don't want to have to live like this anymore. Truth is, you're annoying the hell out of me. And I'm sorry but please go away. Thanks. That's it. But trust me, being nice won't work. She'll think its all a joke and continue Pestering you.
I'm just saying if you value the friendship, you won't be feeling any hatred for her. And if you want her gone, why do you care anymore? It's either this or that and it's your choice.
See, the problem is, my other friends know this girl. And they might like her. I don't know. Also, I'll still have to see her every day in a bunch of classes. It'll be awkward. So that's why I'm hesitating to just say "screw it" and bitch at her. POLITICS SMH
Just because your friends like her and you tell her that you don't like her doesn't mean your friends will suddenly dislike you. I mean real friends wouldn't do that.
But they might hang out together (op's friend and that girl) so of op tell the girl she dislike her, then would it be awkward if all of them hang ?
Yeah, it'd be super awkward. I mean she's not really in our clique, per se, but my friends will talk to her a lot and she likes them a lot (not in a sexual way).
Yes that's what I've been doing and it's been years.? I'm stumped. That's why I made this thread. Also, every time she sits next to me, I can feel her B.O. slowly wafting over and infecting me with bad hygiene smells.? I hate it.
I don't want to copy her because she's a lamer version of everyone. I actually haven't heard her say anything original that's not bragging, complaining, talking about her family, or ordinary stuff like "hi". Ever. She doesn't have a "thing". She just steals everybody else's "thing". I wish I could slap her but that wouldn't go down too well.
If they were my real friends then it wouldn't be awkward, friends are allowed to have other friends. They don't have to have all the same friends. I would have just told her the first day I met where she stood, that we are not best friends, not even friends, maybe an acquaintance but that would be it. If someone calls me their best friend and I barely know them then I would them straight to their face that we're not even friends.
What I would do (note: this will only work if you know for sure that she is straight) is "come out" and admit your love for her instant way to get somebody to back away for a while. And yes this has happened to me ._. And I kinda just ignored her >_> and well it worked :0 sooooo
I have the same problem so I just started entertaining myself with it. And when she gets supper annoying plug in a pair of headphones and don't pay attention. If she finds that rude begin fake crying and tell her you never want to see her again P.S: You're welcome.