i need a girls advice

Haha. But, we don't know the whole story... OP could be talking out of his rear... He might not even be telling us the whole story... Lol. I can't defend him...Plus, he can defend himself.... The girl cannot... And I'm just coming up with possible reasons for why she could be doing what she's supposedly doing...

 

She's bumping uglies with him bury the both of them

 

It's easy to argue both sides but you can only debate with information that you are given.
Any possible outcomes are from inference and expansion alone. Not enough info

 

Poor u.. its a red flag... u need to find a better girl...

 

There is only one answer ....They are terrorists planning to kill u 