That's a completely irrelevant point because we are talking about clubbing and staying the night at a guys house on a regular basis. Not having a kid with some guy you live with and people know.
Okay... But again... Maybe the girl is keeping a secret for her male friend... Maybe it isn't the first time the OP has asked and the girlfriend is becoming annoyed.
If it isn't the first time, why would she insist on continuing, if she obviously knows it aggravates her boyfriend? Why not break up if she can't keep herself from dancing on her brother?
Maybe she's not dancing with her male friend,... Maybe she's just accompanying him... Maybe she's his "help me please" friend... I have friends that do that for me... "if you see me talking to someone for than a few minutes, it means I need rescuing. Come over and interrupt!!!" Lol.
You shouldn't be talking to anyone, or dancing with anyone, at a club for even a single minute because you shouldn't even be there. Even more so if your actual boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't approve you going there in the first place, but you still go there anyway, and then stay at a guys house afterwards, regularly.
The only reason I am saying that she shouldn't go there is because her partner does not approve of it. They need to sit down and have a mature conversation about it, otherwise they should break up, or compromise. That's all I'm saying. It obviously isn't working as is, because she can't seem to stay away from the club or this guys house on a regular basis in spite of the fact her partner doesn't like it.
Yup... You're clearly not a trusting person when it comes to relationships. Lol. A male and/or female should be allowed to dance with others at the club... Suppose OP doesn't dance, does that mean that the girlfriend shouldn't dance? That's lame. I'm totally fine with my girl dancing with whoever at the club... I don't care who she dances with... As long as it was just that... Dancing... And if I ask her one time if it was more than that... And she says, "No... It was just dancing..." but, I still doubt her, then I would break up with her right there... And put no more thought into it.
Maybe you haven't had your heart broken. You're lucky. In this scenario, I would have a talk, like I said in my previous post, and if that didn't solve it, it would be over. It's highly immature on both parts.
i get what cjs is saying. its not really the trust element hes concerned on. its her bf does like her goin to clubs and staying at a guys house regularly. so the should sit down and talk about it. maybe her not going all the time. but that she should maybe think of her bf. that he doesnt like it. maybe i should do it less. or go clubbing but come home rather than staying at another guys house. this isnt a trust issue. its a respect issue. that she doesnt respect that her bf doesnt like it...
I've had my heart broken once... But, it doesn't mean that every person I become involved with should have to suffer because of a Ghost from a past relationship... When I enter a new relationship... I enter with a clean slate... If a person is unable to do that... Then perhaps they aren't ready to be in a relationship.
That's far from true because everyone takes the past with them. Even the strongest. You know what hurts you.
Maybe her and her male friend having been doing the clubbing and spending the night at each other's place for awhile now... Maybe even before her and her boyfriend got together... Why should she have to change up her routine when it probably didn't bother him before? Maybe he's just jealous that he's stuck at work while she's able to go out...
Jack Sparrow, it's totally true for me. Lol. I trust the girl I'm with... Until she gives me a reason to.
Maybe she should break up with him then if it is such an deeply rooted routine that she can't change anything and she's adamant. I wouldn't date a girl like that anyway.
If she is going to be so conservative in her relationship and she refuses to compromise and gets angry over simple questions and topics she doesn't like to talk about.. trash can
Maybe she's fortunate enough to have a day job... Why should she be stuck at home? And maybe she's terrified of being alone... We don't know her or why she does what she does...
You're defending her point of view, but her partner is the one who is cautious, and she is the one who got angry because he asked about it.. Who seems more suspicious? The girl at the club, staying the night at a guys house, with no approval from her partner because she refuses to answer and gets angry when questioned.. Or the guy who works a night job, and his girlfriend goes out with some guy he doesn't even know on a regular basis and sleeps over there all of the time..then when he questions his girlfriend, she gets mad? That's a summary and it seems pretty sketchy on one end.