Clearly... People don't believe in trusting their partner... Or a lot of you have been burned by a cheater... So, of course, any type of behavior that doesn't involve you going out with your partner there has to be cheating... All I know is that I'm the type of person that likes my freedom when I'm in a relationship... And I like to give my partner the same. We can have mutual friends, but I want us to have our own friends... And do our own thing... I guess I'm what you call mature and appreciate mature relationships.
If you went to a club and out with a guy on a regular basis, and I wasn't allowed to come along a single time, I would slap the stupid out of you and tell you to stay in that raunchy skirt for all I care. If you won't compromise with me and let me come along, I wouldn't let you regularly go to a club and then sleep over there. Are you out of your mind? Lol.
Nope. I definitely do. I live in Florida... You don't have to get dressed up to walk into a gay club here. You can walk in wearing a bikini top, shorts and flip flops if you wanted to. Ha. And I choose to wear jeans, t-shirts and sneakers, because that's what I'm comfortable in. When I go to the club... I go to meet up with friends, hang out and drink... Not to hook up with anyone. Lol. Same thing with bars.
We must live in different parts of Florida. Everyone dresses up in the panhandle. If my girlfriend did what these girls up here do, and stayed the night at a guys house afterwards, regularly, and she got mad at me because I asked about it, she'd be dead to me.
I live around Central Florida. ... Haha... They are pretty laid back here... The straight clubs usually have dress codes, though.
I think you should trust her. I mean, if she says she only sees him as a brother and there is no evidence to suggest otherwise, then why wouldnt you? Besides, she was probably upset over the fact that you dont trust her or that you werent doing it to be WITH her but to keep an eye on her.
No evidence to suggest otherwise, except she's regularly going to the club and sleeping over at his house.. Totally nothing wrong with that, we're bros.
If it warrants caution, your significant others asks about it, and you get angry with him and persist, that brings the 'platonic' relationship to a risky ground.
agree with cjs definitely sth going on if a girl and guy regularly sleeps over at each other's place??
If you don't trust yourself to hang out with a friend of the opposite gender and it be totally platonic, then that's something that you need to deal with... You shouldn't put your own insecurities on your partner... Just saying...
My best friend of 17 years and I have a kid together... We live in the same house... He lives on one side of the house and I live on the other... Would it be fair for others to assume that we are intimate just because he and I are really close even though we haven't been in a relationship is over nine years?
It isn't even my own insecurities, it is about trust, and if you can't be trusted by your partner to begin with, you should either break up, or stop clubbing without him in the first place and staying at some random guys house. If you can't even answer a simple why question without getting angry or let the guy come along, you're obviously being shady.