Would you rather be loved by 20 mil hobos and 1 was a movie star and you could never find him but he always stalks you OR Never be loved and be a hobo
Option 1 Would you rather be gorgeous/handsome but nobody would talk to you because they'd think you had a boyfriend/girlfriend so you'd never get married and stay a virgin forever. Or Would you rather be a nice looking but you're always being constantly trampled by guys/girls.