Question To All The Females! (And Males If Ya Want!) :D

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by iSookie_luv2hugU, Jul 8, 2012.

  1. Lol Im very strange, but my past two boyfriends helped me learn the ways of love because of such mistakes I've made. I'm not saying I won't make mistakes anymore because I'm human, it's a part of life.
    But I know what's right for me, The thing is I'm just more complex then most girls. You know, a lot of girls I know would go to the movies for a date and end up making out for the most of the time because he's hot, then later she'll find out he either cheated or he got tired of her and he leaves.
    But I know how the games go, and there are traps that I won't fall into. That kinda guy I wouldn't be with, because i'd see through him and cut him off. And If you don't love someone or they don't love you, regardless of what you or the other person feels the relationship will not work.
    It can be simple, but it takes certain things. I'm a naturally abnormal person, not exactly meant for ones who can't handle it. Because actually, on the inside i'm not complicated, i just need guidance. But the ones who can't handle it see the outside the most and give up.
    Dating a guy who's older?
    I've done that, after all most people in my class are a year or possibly two years older than me. But for me my age doesn't matter seeing how my maturity is different. I'm a highly mature person for my age, more than most people. It's because I think so much, haha I dunno. But I don't think it'll matter if you two are on the same page.

    I've liked the jerks before, but now I'm done, because I realize i deserve better. And I'm Not asking for much, i just want to be treated with respect and be loved for my qualities. There's a certain way to deal with me, you know when I freak out you have stay calm and say we'll make it through. but trust me, if it feels like we're best friends then I could love you forever.

    Oh btw..I love vanilla twilight  its so beautiful 
     
  2. Wow, you guys gave me a lot of good advice. Lol. I always been in really crappy relationships and really hope the next one is better. One thing that always gets me is letting the guy run all over me. (douche bags) so that's why I started this forum. I really need to work on myself more 
     
  3. Trust me, you'll know when you find that special person :D
     
  4. If you just saw this Good looking girl/guy and say "he/she is the one for me" then theres a big chance he/she is not the one since you only saw what he/she looks like.....i personally dont believe love at first sight lol (off topic)
     
  5. I'm a really picky person when it comes to guys. I've never had a boyfriend. It isn't that I'm socially awkward, I've got a lot of guy friends!

    There are two factors:

    1.) I'm the one giving them advice on girls. Since I'm their girl friend, then I get to help them relate to girls more.

    2.) Like I said, I'm picky. I want a guy who will see past looks. I want a guy who is courteous to my parents and friends. I want a guy who can make me laugh when I'm most sad.
     
  6. Haha thats not really picky, I'm like that too. You can't say it's really wrong to want a guy with good quality, it's just natural, but it's a matching thing, all about how you go together. We all know what we want, but is it what we need? You can only be sure....til then just experiment with it, it takes time
     
  7. CPTWells.. Your dream girl  if I'm a guy that'll totally also be what I'm looking for 
     
  8. "I like this guy but he a total butt" 
     
  9. Probes not a good idea
     
  10. Don't be so sad to make mistakes when you'll find your spearman person you'll know that!
     
  11. The heart and look turn me on
     
  12. To me what makes them so attractive is that they no what they want and are in control.
     
  13. Yeah well if you think you control me you can take a hike  we're in this together so you respect me and I respect you and we can be just fine. But you will not throw everything you want and expect for me, I'm not your servant, I'm your girlfriend. Respect and loyalty
     
  14.  you get him!
    Actually I don't care but oh well
     
  15. The 'matching hypothesis' suggests that we're attracted to people of a similar level of attractiveness to ourselves.
     
  16. I wish I knew the answer too. Maybe the reason is that their still single.
     
  17. >.> I'm the type of guy who doesn't have a clue, idk if it's just me, but it seems like every girl i've ever talked too has what I call "code words".

    Code words are like this:

    What she says:
    I feel lonely...

    What she means:
    Can you give me some company?

    Now since this is like one of the only ones I know because a friend told me.(yes, very sad)

    So sometimes I would say:

    Is this what you really mean? Or is there a secret meaning?
     
  18. I know exactly how You feel it's the fact that he is bad and every girl in some time of there Life is gonna be attracted to a douche bag it's always been like that
     
  19. It's because there confident and being a butt does boost your confidence and the oh so gentle nerd is forever alone....