Ummm Nephy have you ever tried "obeying" your parents? It's really not that bad. In fact it encourages trust and respect from your parents. My parents actually DO trust me. They just don't trust OTHER people. But at this point in my life they're actually allowing me do stuff because well they see that they've actually raised a responsible and sane person. ? Going behind your parent's back is never the answer. They're not Dumb!
Obeying? That's what I've been doing all my life. They force me to do a swim team, i did it. They force me to get workout, i did it. Technically everything. But though, they told me to stop playing games, I denied.
Honestly, just be glad they don't practice tiger parenting or attachment parenting. Or, on the reverse, be glad that they give enough of a shit about you to parent at all.
I was the same way when living with my parents their word was the law I was raised in a strict Christian family setting. You didn't obey them I got my ass whipped with a belt. I didn't even think about doing anything with a guy til I was 21 that's how much they struck fear into me.
You used a double negative, I assumed it was on accident. Why is screwing around with a guy when you're young good? ?It isnt.
He's correct, actually. I should have worded my post differently. Sorry. Why is waiting until you're older a bad thing?*
My parents are like that with sleepovers too. If i'm with a guy it's gay if i'm with a girl i'm having intercourse. It sucks