In my opinion, when something severely traumatic recently happens, like within the weeks timeline, it's something people raise their eyebrows on when you take the time to "update" people you do not know in reality when you should really be dealing with situation at hand. However, I do not have any say so on what you should or shouldn't do, but it's just something to keep your mind on. It's a little odd. Hopefully she does indeed get better and maybe later on take private personal matters off PIMD because whenever you post, you take the risk of being criticized and you wouldn't want that with such a sensitive issue as this. Best to PM those of her circle.