but in first post you said 3-4 years, something tell me you are not ready to come out clean, anyway that was my advice but if you are worried about stats you can always do few cc and you will get better than your current stats
A trend with catfish..."I never thought...". That's the problem with them all. They don't think before they pull people into their lives and hurt them.
Please enlighten me on where I said everything's okay? I am leaving these people, this thread wasn't just to apologise to those three people but to also come clean to everyone I have been friends in my life that I've lied too. But no the only thing you people take out of this that I think everything's okay now that I've apologised. You don't know how much regret and shit I'm going thru so I suggest you keep your opinion to your self and do your self a favour and stay out of it.
I don't think many ppl come w the intention to, but it happens ? I mean sometimes it's a big mistake as I've learned, but nonetheless, it happens ?
How pathetic would you have to be to fall for someone on an app like this. Was it love at first Ava?
It happens because all you can do is talk and learn. Talking is all you have and it's possible to love someone's mind.
One thing what I don't get people who do post on this thread, ones that I've never seen or spoken to me have the audacity to speak their mind but when I do all shit goes down and it's pick on the catfish. I get that I've done the wrong thing but repeatedly taunting me about is wrong too. I will leave those people alone but why can't I say my peace without being judged? Every person that says they don't judge do judge others. All I'm saying here is I regret my choices that I've made over the years. I didn't come here for your support. I came here to speak my mind. I'm sorry that it had cause this much shit to you all that you go speaking your mind too. But what's done is done and I can't do anything to change what I've done but now that I do people still stop me from doing it. So what the hell am I suppose to do? Some say from stats and start again but what are stats? How's that helping me come clean. Some say leave the people alone which I have but they just gotta keep on repeating it. This post wasn't intended to gain sympathy it was for me to come clean and apologise now if that's wrong then i have no other words for you people.
?honey, you should also read what i said. I never said you actually said that. "Think" i also quoted what u said earlier which caused me to think that. An apology is just bunch of words "sorry" "I didn't mean it" blah blah blah. What can u do to prove that you are sorry? You can't "make peace" with a stupid thread. Just leave them alone. Edit: if you do start all over people won't know who u are if you don't tell them. So, its like if this never happened i guess even tho it did. :lol:
Bruh what did you expect. You're on PIMD forums. Did you see what they did to the guy Forums? My god lol
It's a process. You come clean to show people you acknowledge your mistake and that's good for you but it doesn't do much for people. That's just the first step. It's acceptance. That means if people are going to call you out and judge you for what you have done, you accept it because it really is what you have done. But accepting it doesn't mean you allow it to weigh down on you forever. It means that you will take responsibility for your actions and take the necessary steps to make sure it doesn't happen again. No one knows just how sincere you are and that's only natural. Only your actions will tell. People are saying you seem to think an apology makes it all okay because you get pretty defensive when people give you their opinion.
See people can say what they want on this went faced in real life not many people have the balls to say anything infront of anyone.
Exactly, talking is all you have. So, they'll tell you all these pretty lies, and you'll lap it up because of course, there's no way for you to prove them wrong, and then two weeks later you're making catfish threads ??. Still a better love story than twilight tho.
You're right though, this is true but in the events that it's not, it's really a nice thing. Also, you think people would start asking for proof more.