I'm pregnant and engaged

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by *-Ava-Jasmine- (01), Aug 27, 2011.

  1. Kids raising kids. WTF
    I'm a father, and they are my world. You have a long, hard road ahead of you. I don't believe kids(15yo) should be raising kids. Even if your parents have money, you are gonna miss out on a large part of your childhood. Yes you are still a child(till your 19). Your friends are not gonna understand that u can't just drop off your child and go "hang".
    I really hope you do have supportive parents. Good luck
     
  2. What makes you stop being a child at 19? She not buying cigarettes or alcohol for her baby... Don't ignorant
     
  3. Don't know if this was pointed out (stopped reading after a few pages) but for those who said "She may not need a job! Maybe her fiance is rich." Consider this, THEIR 15! No offence but the chances of them lasting is slim. Yes, if they seperate the father usually gives the mother to care for the baby, but will that be enough if she doesn't have education or a job? And you can't rely on other for help all the time. I think being a teen parent is wrong, that's just my opinion.
    But congratz ahead of time for your baby. I'm happy for you, good luck.
     
  4. I mean in the eyes of society, u are considered a child till your 19. Most places I know 19 is the age of consent(legal age). Up to the legal age you need a parent or guardian to sign for most things. Car, house, mortgage, even when renting something. How does a child support herself(and a child?).
     
  5. Where I'm from the legal as is 21 lol... And that is true, but since we don't know her life we outta believe that she can hopefully handle it. (on no sides btw).
     
  6. Oh man... Im not going to comment
     
  7. Would u stop being a waste of time and go troll some where else Kendal. Nobody is even gonna listen to u. Go have 6 babies for all we care.
     
  8. Consent is 16 here
     
  9. Sounds like a good deal
     
  10. I'm not getting child support because I have loving and encouraging friends and family
     
  11. Hey that's cool respect that guys
     
  12. Yes ou need to respect that
     
  13. Well Hun, your an adult now( well u now have adult responsibilities ). So you can't be bothered with or listen to negative nay-Sayers. Theirs always, ALWAYS, gonna be SOMEONE, somewhere that has something not so nice to say. What you need to do now bc, again you can no longer think of yourself as a little girl, is be the adult and just ignore them and continue to do right by your familygood luck Hun stay positive 
     
  14. I say it's fine, it's her choice. Good luck Hun 
     
  15. All I have to say is wow. Be glad you have the family and your rich. I hope your guy is responsible and it doesn't end up like most teen pregnancy. Baby daddy usually disappears even if they are engaged. Or the mom wants to go be a party monster when she hits 18-21 and basically abandons their child with family instead of taking care of it. I am hoping it works out for you. I would puddle on the floor and cry in a bad way if I were pregnant because I'm not ready for that and I'm 22 I just finished college and had hip surgery and probably need my other leg done. I want to enjoy my life and make sure the relationship I have will survive everything an my man won't run off. I know you think you understand what a baby is like because you have your niece and nephew around but it's so much different having your own. Good luck and keep your man on his leash.
     
  16. Also birth control is an amazing tool cuz I know at your age I was responsible enough to have a child but I was responsible enough to know to wait that and I didn't want my corrections officer mother killing me. Again be thankful you're rich, cuz broke girls like me know better than to pop out a kid.
     
  17. ...Don't listen to the others...



    At least you're having the baby!!! It's very responsible of you...

    (making up for having sex)


    I'm glad to see a young mother, strong and brave enough to keep the baby. Most teen moms would shut down or have breakdowns when listening to their peers and have abortions. 




    Yep... I posted in yoir other thread and said it twice but just to let you see and know. 
     
  18.  terrible
     
  19.  look at the guy with that name