Tbh i don’t like to express my feelings bc when i do i feel like i get punished or things go really badly. so i just dont say anything and disappear for a bit.
Sometimes, it is difficult to let people care for you because it's a vulnerability thing but it would be good for your bond to let them help. : )
Omg yes. Pretty lamps would be fun to look at. Xmas before last we had a work holiday party and some drama left me in bed literally the whole day after. Silent crys and feeling sorry for myself with my blankets and my fur babe. At the end of the day my bf forced me out of bed, wrapped me in my blankets, put me in the car, placed my dog on my lap and drove to look at all the xmas lights. I had told him all day i didn't wanna do anything and just throw myself a pity party. It was so sweet of him to try his hardest just to see a smile on my face. He also went into starbucks for me and got me a nice little drink to have on the drive there. even if i only got out of the car for like 20 minutes in the end. He was just a sweetie about it
Well, same, but sometimes, I will get upset when I am already out with friends due to unforeseen events. And friends sometimes try to cheer you up if they know you are upset, even if you aren't physically around. Do you have any experiences with that? : )
My best friend is an old lady stuck inside a 24 year old body. Even at 16, she’d bake, write thank you cards, and garden on the weekends. We couldn’t be any more opposite, but I find it adorable. When other people are traveling or hanging out at the beach, she’s making a fruit cake for Ms. Frances next door. If I’m ever upset she bakes me muffins (usually pumpkin or blueberry) and cuddles on the couch with me.
I have a friend like this. The last time i went to see her she sent me home with some homemade bread and some soap that she cured herself. She's preparing to be everyone's cute old granny