First he's not a man and she's not a woman. they are both teenagers. these are kids so I don't think restraining her would've crossed his mind. secondly, she left her area of the CLASSROOM and went to the back of the room where he was. she got in his face after she got her spit together. from the smile on his face I don't think he thought she was actually going to do what she had already said she was going to do. yep she SPITin his face then hit him and she got what she should've gotten. one hit for spitting on him and second swing and slight hit for hitting him.
I ageee with rehab if women gonna act all tough like a man, expect to get a beating like a man, simple!!! Women think there so cool wen they try to stepout a man then act all suprised wen thhey get a hiding pffft please I hate girls who do that
My opinion it is bad to put your hands on a girl that way but I won't hit a girl I'll tie her up and spank her haha but yea it is wrong to hit a guy and can't do nothing by law but report it but watch out ladies some guys don't care now and days
apparently their teacher didn't think much about it as she did nothing to prevent it from happening. I done necessarily condone males beating females or the other way around. however, if you feel you have the strength to hit a man, be prepared for what may come your way and think/react quick. I used to intervene when my cousin and her dude would be fighting and I happened to come around. it was more like he was beating her. I stopped trying to break it up after I realized she kept dropping charges, continued to see him, and was upset w me for helping her. she had two black eyes and busted lip. not to mention all types of scrapes from being dragged. I later found out that she was always the first to throw a punch. dude would try to leave and she'd block the door, cut his tires, busy out windshields/headlight, just stupid crap. after the big fight they'd be all cuddly...sickening. at that point I started seeing things differently.
This whole argument disgusts me honestly. And that joke was appalling After months of getting beaten and being told how worthless and disgusting I was, I finally one day when he told me he was going to hit me beat the shit out of him with a high heeled shoe, in that instance he didn't hit me that day but I damn sure hit his ass. And in return got my own ass beat and finally left that relationship. lol just a frame of reference I was 5 foot and 124 pounds he was 6'1 and 260 pounds. Violence is never the answer period. There's always something you can do. My answer should have been to get the fuck out the second his ass hit me. I don't think it's okay to act aggressively period...
I still say that if you raise your hand and hit someone, you can be hit back. if you don't want to be hit don't put yourself in those type situations. domestic violence relationships are a bit different from the incident that happened. having seen the video, she wanted to be hit. he responded in an appropriate manner. she entered his personal space.
Still don't believe in any way violence is the answer wether a man or a woman. But then again that's just me.
I'm not saying violence is the answer. I'm saying be prepared for the consequences if you hit someone. you don't know how they are going to respond. they may walk away or may not. however, be prepared. just because you're female, it doesn't give you the right to hit someone and not expect the same treatment in return. the same applies to fights between same gender.
She shouldn't have put her hands on him. Of course it's looked down upon if a man hits a woman but if she's attacking him don't be surprised if a man hits her back. I'm always against a man abusing a woman or child, and it also holds if the woman is abusing the man or child. Just not right to be putting your hands on them unless it's a consented lets go have sexy time kind of touch.
I still stand by the fact that no man should hit a woman for any reason. But before anyone gets offended... No one should anyone else for any reason. ? Stop the violence. Replace it with kindness.
Agreed Cherry but the argument is when it does come to violence is it as acceptable for a man to hit a woman as the other way around or not?
My heart says no. But my rational mind says that she got what she deserved. I suppose it is unfair to say that every woman ought to be treated a certain way. Given the fact that not every woman deserves that treatment. I for one hope that I am always treated in the manner which I deserve to be treated. And in order for that to happen I realize that my actions should instill a desire in everyone not just men to treat me the way I want to be treated. So I suppose not every girl wants to be taken care of or coddled, or wants guys to stand up when she comes in the room. But if that's what you want... Then act like you deserve it. If you don't want to be knocked out don't start a fight with the opposite and expect him to (mercifully) not put you back in your place. Not your place as a woman (oh hell no) your place as a heathen. Which is what she was acting like. This of course doesn't apply to domestic violence in any way, shape or form. Domestic violence is basically taking out your anger/pain/frustration on another individual using brute strength or emotionally scarring words. In this situation the significant other does NOT deserve that kind of treatment. They're your other half. They need love, they want love, they DESERVE to be loved. Not abused. I mean isn't that why you're with them? Because they deserved your time and devotion? If it's not... If they truly deserve to be abused... Then why are you with them?
If a woman comes at me with a knife or gun 1 of 2 things will happen. 1. She's gonna get decked right in the face 2. Depending on the circumstance there's a possibility of someone getting shot. Now if she balled up a fist and tried coming at me, well I'd bear huh the shit out of her