Would anyone like to post their opinion sbout bullying?

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by ZoH3t, Feb 4, 2014.

  1. ^ you must be old
     
  2. ^ no offense
     
  3. Non taken and old to some here would be 28 or 30
     
  4. I'm not a forum guy though just got tired of hearing all this bully crap. People need to realize that it's a normal struggle that everyone (even bullies) end up confronting eventually in life.
     
  5. OP is 3kcs btw. What's that tell ya
     
  6. As long as you know.

    Great.
     
  7. Bullying happens everywhere... On here, other social apps and in real life. You can't exactly say it doesn't happen on PIMD.... Because it does. Although some will say: "Turn off your device, make a new account or ignore them" - Not everyone can.... And it shouldn't be any victims fault if they are unable to get away from their bullies. Whose doing the wrong here? The bullies are.... Because they can't grow up and learn when enough is enough. You have to realize you have no idea what the hell that person has gone through or is going through..... And if you bullying them chances are you're gonna make their life miserable.

    If you think bullying others is okay... You really need to get some help...
    Seriously.... Treat others how you want to be treated. You have no clue how emotional that person is or what they have been through. So before you go saying things THINK about what you're about to say. Everything you do and say affects someone whether you know it or not.

    When you go out of your way to hurt someone and you don't see it as wrong... It's not okay. Is being mean and cruel and hurting other people worth ruining their life and yours? Next time you think it's funny to hurt someone in person or online, think carefully about the consequences. You may think it's funny at first, but think about how much fun it would be for you to be spending time in jail. Think about how being in jail could prevent you from attending college, having a great career? Think about having a criminal record for the rest of your life! Think about how funny you think it is when you bully others. But if you go to jail, think about how others will feel about you?

    It's not up to anyone else to tell you what you are or are not dealing with.
    What would you have done had the bullying pushed someone to the edge (To successfully commit Suicide)? Would it have made you realize the way you were treating the person wasn't just a game, but something far more serious; their life, their emotions, and their feelings.

    Just saying..... Not all teenagers are responsible for bullying..... Adults bullying to.... So don't be quick to judge a generation.


    Although people misuse the word bullying.....

    Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behavior that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. Both individuals who are bullied and who bully others may have serious, lasting problems.

    In order to be considered bullying, the behavior must be aggressive and include:

    1. An Imbalance of Power: People who bully use their power—such as physical strength, access to embarrassing information, or popularity—to control or harm others. Power imbalances can change over time and in different situations, even if they involve the same people.

    2. Repetition: Bullying behaviors happen more than once or have the potential to happen more than once. (Pretty much Harassment)

    3. Bullying includes actions such as making threats, spreading rumors, attacking someone physically or verbally, and excluding someone from a group on purpose.

    Bullying into two categories:

    - direct bullying involves a great deal of physical aggression, such as shoving and poking, throwing things, slapping, choking, punching and kicking, beating, stabbing, pulling hair, scratching, biting, scraping, and pinching.


    - Social aggression or indirect bullying is characterized by attempting to socially isolate the victim. This isolation is achieved through a wide variety of techniques, including spreading gossip, refusing to socialize with the victim, bullying other people who wish to socialize with the victim, and criticizing the victim's manner of dress and other socially-significant markers (including the victim's race, religion, disability, sex , or sexual preference, etc.)

    - nonviolent behavior which can be considered "indirect bullying", at least in some instances, such as name calling, the silent treatment, arguing others into submission, manipulation, gossip/false gossip, lies, rumors/false rumors, staring, giggling, laughing at the victim, saying certain words that trigger a reaction from a past event, and mocking.

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  8. Tells me I found an emo farm 
     
  9. damn that was longer than a scroll of toilet paper, megga
     
  10. What did you do post the whole psychology 101 chapter? 
     
  11. Oh good griefWho said we think it's ok to bully? I'm saying deal with the struggle. It's what life is about. It's not complicated. It's very simple actually.
     
  12. You are what you eat and I eat beef.

    <- bully
     
  13. Instead of taking them hunting, we put emos in a forest and hunt them down?
     
  14. Yeah an old dude (was drunk like ALWAYS) once told me, " ever get into a fight with a dude squeeze his balls, and if you get into a fight with a woman: kiss her to death" lol

    ^ very wise I COME HERE TO SPREAD HIS WISDOM
     
  15. The Hunger Games for emos! I like it already.
     
  16. No one said it's okay to bully
    They just said that it will happen
    Which is true
    There is no way to prevent it I wish we could prevent it.
    People are always gonna be mean and harsh.
    You can either cry over it and get it out of your system or toughen it out and prove your haters that they can't get to you.
     
  17. Meggy the power button is always a valid option. Doesn't matter if you like the game or not
     
  18. ?The last emo, we just eliminate him too.
     
  19. Sounds like good advise Spit