I agree people need to realize this is just a game. Place u know i love ya through all ur faults, because we all have them. We cannot help but to have em. :*:* Lets forgive and leave it in the past. We will have happier futures if we do.
This just touched me. Honestly. 4 years ago I broke up with my guy because he cheated but I kept kicking it with him out of spite towards the girl. A year later she killed herself and I felt like it was partially my fault. The night she killed herself we had a confrontation and I told her she should go kill herself because I'll always be in his life. I felt so guilty. I cried many nights because I feel if I had just walked completely away she'll still be alive.
I too learned that lesson the hard way. I was supposed to have dinner with one of my best friends. We always chatted and it was rare to go a day or two without talking. I was stood up on a Sunday night by them. I left a message saying "You better have a good excuse or be dead." I was so angry that my calls and texts went unanswered. I got a call from his sister later on that Monday letting me know that he was in a coma as a result of a car accident. I now watch what I say very closely... Please think before you say things. You never know what the future brings. Peace and Love
Mrs jai and j31 It's hard and very touching stories thanks for sharing It takes a lot of courage to say these things As we all know this is a sensitive thread and I hope it's helping you all as much as it me
Life can be really painful But all we can do is forget about the past and look to the future.If we think about yesterday it will affect tomorrow.
I have said many things that I would love to take back but sadly I can’t. I learned the hard way as well. A few months ago, I was having a really bad fight with a friend of mine and a family member texted me wanting to talk when she was upset. I was so angry from the fight I sent my family member really horrible things. I texted her “I wish you were never born.” As well as many other things. I didn't take time to think about what I sent. The same night my aunt had told me that she had killed herself. I cried for about two weeks straight because I had lost my cousin who I was extremely close with. I felt like it was my fault because of what I had said to her. Family members said it wasn't my fault but I still felt guilty. Even to this very day I feel guilty for what I have said. I’m watching what I say to others now and I hope others will as well. Learn to think before you Speak and type. Understand what you’re saying, and think about the potential consequences of the words you choose. When we are hurting, we are most likely throw caution out the window. Every action you make has an impact on someone whether you know that or not. That is the same with what you say or type. As Jen said you never know what the future brings. The thing about the past it makes you what you are. And learning lessons makes you grow as a person. The past doesn't define us; what does it only shows what we choose to be. While the past has heavily influenced who we are and who we have become, it does not define, limit, or restrict us and who we choose to be. I agree with the post Zed has posted about this is a game.
see, a lot of people recognize that this is just a game. isnt it about time players got along? come on, we arent 5 anymore. we need to stop acting like it. this applies to real life too.
Similar situation happen to me in high school i was a freshman had a bully my 5th period math class waited at the top of the stairs to my class to make fun of me because I was over weight at the time and a nerd. My other buddy would laugh and tell me you can't keep getting bullied. So on a Friday I told him he's going to get his one day. The weekend passed Monday came and my bud was at the top of the stairs with a long face, thinking my bully would be waiting for me ready to tease me. Turns out the bully died in a car accident and in his final moments pulled his little brother out of the vehicle then collapsed dead. I later found out the kid came from a broken home and lost his father the previous year. Bullying or crying out for help don't really know needless to say I'm more careful of what I say. You never know when it might be the last thing you say to that person.
I wish i could take so many things ive said back. A couple years ago I got in a big fight with my dad and I told him I hated him and wished he was dead. He had to go in for surgery a gew days later. After the surgery my mom called me and said he probably wouldnt make it. I started balling and luckily he did make it but was very close to dying. I remember visiting him inthe hospital and all i did was cry. When someone did so much for me growing up how could I be so disrespectful back? Your last words to someone stay in your mind forever… so always make the last words you say possitive
The past is the past Nothing can change. Just remember we became better for it As in the game talk before taking action. As I will do so a big wake up call for me too
Tacky, zed. Tacky. Mag, what you said took a lot of courage. We have all said things we regret, but a true man can admit that. You have my respect.
A couple years back watching formula one I was hoping Mercedes would blow something up. The classic cheaters deserve to loose but not a life. Sure enough a carbon fibre strut came apart one corner from the checkered flag. Hey Mercedes you suck No regrets here. They have sacrificed cars to take out leading Audis stole Ferrari plans like some super spies. I'm wishing they are banned from racing now, no regrets.
Lol if you call "take it elsewhere" attacking you, Im sorry, love, you need to broaden your horizons.
I'm just saying we can't change RL. What happened happened. But with this game it's unlike any other game I played And here in this game I can change. So I ask if you have issues with me please follow. And we can all talk through it thank you again all
Yep. Many times. Either watch what you say or tell the people in your life positive things. You never know when they will pass away and you will never speak to them again. So make sure you treat em as if it was their last day
Jopo I live by this every day now. In RL and in game I like to help others. Many times it is thrown in my face. But I keep doing it and I want change. I don't want regrets When my life is done I want to know I was best I could be Some with game I done things not proud and have also done things I am so pleased about Watch many grow so much higher than me and still I'm happy for them. Never regret others achievements.