What do you do with low self esteem people

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by 00_Lamont, Mar 8, 2014.

  1. i have low self esteem, i say just be there for them and be a friend, and also fuck you aj
     
  2. ughh kristi ....why post if u didn't really have any helpful suggestions
     
  3. talking from exp. its best to try and get them to THINK differently. its as little as helping the reflect that what is wrong. is a way of life and that things DO pick up and get better. its hard now to see. but it does. listen to whats wrong with them. simply that can be enough. and encourage them to do things. do let them sit at home. take them out. even if they dont want to. move them out of their comfort zone. but let them have fun. its slow going at first but soon they will do more and more... its hard to TELL u how to help. u need to feel what to do and say. if thats any help... :/
     
  4. Aj did'nt know what Kind Of low self esteem his friend had Korsett.
     
  5. I said over petty things and low self esteem has nothing to do with you mom dying in a tornado so what are you talking about
     
  6. And low self esteem doesn't deal with cancer if his mom has cancer that's different but ppl with low self esteem you need to be really blunt
     
  7. don't listen to aj... i repeat do not listen to aj u just gone make low self -esteem ppl feel lower
     
  8. I think Aj and razer person is right
     
  9. Fuck me?when? Hahaha he said low self esteem the SELF part explains it all I'm not being an ass I'm being honest while your crying talking about your ugly or overweight and you'll never be anything many ppl would kill to be in your shoes so with that being said SUCK IT UP now his mom having cancer that's other story that you should be kind about tell him it gets better but the low self esteem don't feed into that set him straight
     
  10. AJ is right in that sense ...
     
  11. That was just an example.
     
  12. Have your friend engage in a charity program, or have him engage in positive/helpful actives, I'm pretty sure that can boost self esteem, why? Because someone who does good stuff, and helps people out, they won't feel that negative about themselves, right? It's hard to feel negative about yourself when you're helping others, when you're doing POSITIVE things. 
     
  13. Agree with spit, actually. You always feel better after you do something nice for other people. Get involved.
     
  14. Man, always do whatever makes you happy.