There is always someone. How old are you? I dunno what country you're in. Hopefully the U.S. because if you're under age C.P.S should be able to help you if school counselors can't or the police. I'm not sure if getting help in your country would do any better either... It wouldn't be fun getting thrown onto the street either... So like I said before, rely on yourself to do what's right.
You make friends with complete strangers. EVERYONE is a stranger at some point and sooner or later you stop thinking about them being people you don't know and you see them with labels, like teacher or neighbor. Strangers are people and people exist that can help you. The problem is you don't know who to turn to. There are people in this world that can or can't help you and then there are those that can help you and then some. If you're worried about who, let me assure you that teachers and counselors are there to help you. They're older and wiser and aren't just your teachers during school hours, they're in charge of looking after you. If you're absolutely sure you don't want to tell a teacher or counselor because you don't think you can trust them you have to. Someone has to know what the problem is in your life especially if it's a big one and if you can't tell a stranger then you won't be able to tell anyone. I do reccommend telling a counselor though because their job is actually helping you through these kinds of things.
My grandmaw mite have cancer i cant see her yet cuz shes in a specail room i cant put up wit this rite now wen my great aunt pasted her lat words were weres bailey (me) and my dad wuldnt let me see see her i still cant forgive myself for not seeing her i wanted to but my dad was like no
There, there. Don't take blame upon yourself. He probably didn't want you to see her in pain. Your dad was just looking out for you.
Idc i still cant forgive him for it but wen my gmaw on his side was in the gospitall he was all up for me going
Things happen! I hope you forgive him for it and be there for him like he's trying to be for you. Parents make mistakes to you know. Hahaha.
Don't think of it as being haunted. Think of it as being reminded of how much being there for the ones you love is important to you. Have you told your dad that? You should confront your feelings. Most "men" will tell you to be a man and tough it out, but if it's always going to bother you when in a similar situation... Then it's best to speak up for yourself. What do you have to lose? If you're afraid of your dad, that's kinda bad because your parents are supposed to be there for you and if they aren't, well obviously someone's doing their job wrong. But part of growing up is realizing that it's better to keep quiet when others are grieving because that's how they prefer to be left alone. I'm sure he felt just as sad having to see her in that condition if not more so. To see someone you love in pain and not be able to help them seems unfair, but we all have our days. If the time comes and you think you're ready for that kind of pain, tell your dad or whoever that you want to say goodbye. Above all, you're still young! I'm sure your Grandma wouldn't want you to be sad! Parents NEVER want to see their kids cry. It would have haunted her even more to see you cry in her last moments don't you think? Parents will do whatever it takes for as long as it takes to preotect their children from harm or sadness. I know that many of the people in forum know this to be true and I know that even you can understand that, right? You're still young. Be happy for as long as you can. And explore the mysteries of this world. Enough with all the sad talk! Try learning something new! Did you know?
Him: how could u do this to me? I thought u loved me but u threw me away like I was nothing. You ruined my life u made me switch schools you made everyone think i was stupid and alone. I was so alone. You made me have life but then I felt nothing and depression came over me. I felt like everyone wanted me dead. I wanted to die. But I look back and I am glad that I broke ur nose.
My own father didnt even see her she was on my moms sid n there divorced and i miss her my dad dont even member hear
Brandon: The night we argued you hurt me more than I ever have been before. You told me you were tired of us and you didn't want to put up with my problems anymore. You told me you were just plain tired and I took the honor of saying goodbye. I ran from you in tears and anger and resentment towards you for the longest. You tried talking with me and becoming my friend but I ignored you. I couldn't have just been friends with you, there was too much between us. Then you started dating Anne and she loved you so much. You seemed to love her more than you ever loved me. It broke my heart, every kiss I witnessed between you two, every sweet gesture. It hurt me so much that every time you needed me I fled from your sight. Then that night, a long while since we have ever been alone together. I tried to run from you again but you finally stopped me... After all this time you stopped me. You held me close from behind, so tight it almost hurt, you cried on my shoulder. You told me everything, you told me you missed me so much, you told me every lie and how you never loved her. How you tried to hurt me, how you tried to make me want you again, how you tried to make me run back into your arms without you having to beg. I couldn't stop the tears I cried or the pain I felt. I couldn't stop the fact that Anne loved you so much... And I would be terrible to steal you away. You did this, Brandon... You made her love you knowing you didn't love her back. You awakened those feelings inside me, you caused this ring of hurt. God, I wanted to kiss you. I wanted to hit you. I wanted to be with you. But I could not.... That girl loved you. You lied to me all this time... You lied to her. You didn't fight for me but instead you pushed me away by trying to make me jealous. I walked away from you again that night knowing I could not be with you. Not after all the pain and deceit. I looked back and wonder what would have happened, had I not run away from you all the time. What if you stopped me? What if you didn't make me jealous? What if I tried to take you from her? We were so good together and I missed you so much. But, I've let go. I'm in love with a man who treated me as well as you did if not better. A man who cares about me and my feelings, and takes all the downs as well as ups. A man who would always be there for me, waiting for me and chasing me no matter how far I'd run. A man who loves me as much as I love him, I wouldn't give him up for anything in the world. He makes everyday worth living, makes my grey skies bright and sunny. I don't regret anything that happened between us, Brandon. Every moment helped mold who I am now. Every pinch of hurt endured made me stronger for the one I love now. Everything has brought me closer to him. Most of all you taught me not to run from him. And so I, hope you're doing well and found love again. I hope you're happy with Anne, or whoever may hold your heart now.
Joseph[Joey], you hurt me so many times. You called me harsh names that didn't even describe me. You said you loved me though you continued to treat me like dirt . i dated you nine months
Joseph[Joey], you hurt me so many times. You called me harsh names that didn't even describe me. You said you loved me though you continued to treat me like dirt . i dated you nine months
Daammnnn kitten i feel that....im kunda in that situatiin now but i cant leave him alone Whew KUDOS TO YOU!!
My Foster Mom: Drugs...that's what hurt u the most..not dad..not stress.. Drugs. So y did u blame dad for ur mistakes? Did u think my brother was going to start drugs? He knows better than to do that. Did u think it was ok that drugs caused u to abuse me? No. Life doesn't work like that. I can't even be with my friends without feeling uncomfortable. Ur the reason my life is a mess. Ur the reason that I feel insecure all time. U ruined my life. Even if u were my foster mom..it doesn't change what u did. I will NEVER forgive u for that. U made a bad choice and it hurt us all. And when I was 14..u died from overdosing yourself. U have no idea how hard it is to live without a mother. It's hurting me. It's killing me. It's hurting my brother too. He doesn't remember much about u. But he does remember the mistakes u made. We all do..and we will never forget them. -Isabel