I’ve only had one real break up/heartbreak. After dating for 3 years and putting up with a lot of smalling cheating (kissing other girls and other things not going all the way) that these younger girls who were in love with him would tell me (it was high school I was a senior and freshman were in love with him) he slept with his ex who was constantly trying to steal him back from me but he usually paid no attention to cause “he hated her” cough okay cough. I didn’t know until SHE SAW US AT FREE PANCAKE DAY AT IHOP AND MESSAGED ME ON FB LATER TO TELL ME. Ruined free pancake day forever btw. Then I broke up with him buying sleeping over at his house one last night and spending the whole night crying to each other because I was disgusted and loved him but I couldn’t do it anymore and it was the last straw for me. They ended up dating after we broke up, but he also ended up dumping her for her friend. #i dodged a bullet tbh it just took me 3 years and a lot of pain to do it.
i had a crush on this guy for the longest time and i thought he liked me back too. we talked every day and eventually he asked me out. and then he broke up with me the next day because he “valued our friendship too much” and we stopped talking altogether. he then started dating another girl the same week.