Depends on who bully him, and what their reasons, my little bro also got bullied in elementary school by a guy, and my lil bro was so shy to talk to my parents so i told them, the next day my father met with the guy parents and talked to them, since then my lil bro never get bullied.
Sadly, I have to side with Jaco on this. When I was in like 2nd or 3rd grade there was this big dude Julio that would pick on me coz I was always the quiet one. I'd always come home bruised up but would hide it from my parents till my dad found out. I'm Mexican so my dad pretty much told me to stop being a maricón and fight back. Few days later we're walking up the stairs to the front entrance and he starts kicking my shins and pulling my hair so I got fed up and I falcon punched him in the stomach and he fell back and down a few steps. Teachers saw and i got in trouble but after that day he never came up to me again. Since then I've taken self defense classes and boxed so all it really takes is one chance to show em what you're capable of and they wont mess with you again.
Build your kid's confidence. Notify the teachers to keep an eye out. Notify the bully kid's parents of the situation. Self defense will help if he is facing physical bullying, but make sure he doesn't end up starting fights over every bad remark.
As a parent if you think ur kid is getting bullied its your job to take them out. Homeschool n get them involved in lots kf activities so they dont get anti social. Public school is garbage and will remain that way until something major changes
#1 I have notified school. For years. You don't get it makes it worse for him.#2 agreed I should,get him into self defense #3 I love u jopo #4stfu troll _#5 oh right, stfu u troll
Lol ily2 kiti. But yeah, I'm not a dad yet but when and if I am, I will for sure get my kid into some sort of self defense class at a younger age so they know when and how to defend themselves. Teachers dont do crap. The bully's parents wont do crap. You'll go to jail if you beat the kid up. Only one thing you can do tbh
When I was a wee lad, I was getting bullied. I went home and told my uncle. He responded, "if someone messes with you, I want you to grab the closest thing to your hand and break it over their head" Worked great
Sad.. If u want your son to be tough Sent him to Army Boarding School for 5 years & When he comes back home for vacation U will see a change Son of machine Gun I'm not encouraging you.. In case if u want your son to be tough that's all.
There are always gonna be as$holes in your life. The only person you can change is yourself. So make your kid aware of the character traits he needs to improve to deal with it. That's how you build a self aware, self reliant, well rounded human. Teach him to focus on himself not those as$holes.
Sounds like you'd be a shìt parent. Sending your child away for 5 years isn't the only way to toughing him/her. You can always pay for your child to take karate lessons or other self defence classes.
A few things. Violence does not equal long lasting respect. If a distain for any particular person(s) is strong enough, the very second a person (or persons) who resort(s) to violence or threats can be compromised or subdued by any means, he/she/they/it will be. Confidence, (not overconfidence) resourcefulness, (not slickness) truthfulness (not being a tattletale), resilience (not being annoying), being determined (not stubborn), and being respectful, can bring much more permanent respect without ever throwing a single punch. I fought... but not because I was being bullied or anyone else was being bullied... I fought because I was defending myself against an unprovoked attack. I never took any “self defense” classes but I would “play fight” “slap-box” and wrestle often in the neighborhood with my relatives and other kids nearby (horseplay). I learned to fight by actually fighting. By the time I encountered the school kids... it was light-work. My point is I was able to obtain a certain level of discipline before I encountered those situations in the first place. I was also part of the desegregation program at some point, so I was often the “new kid” who was “bussed out” to more affluent areas. This made it easy to try to single me out... lol They weren’t ready for a true city kid, and I, eventually was able to adapt to their surroundings if necessary and the popularity often shifted my way. My solution, without knowing the depth of the sensitivity, daily home life, and smallness of your child, is to provide a hobby or some sort of coaching/guidance that builds the skills and attributes I mentioned early on in this reply. It can be self-defense... as he should be educated in what to do in an emergency and how to respond to threats if he doesn’t learn that in his home environment. It can also be sports, pastimes, and arts. Although I am not very religious or spiritual myself... I won’t rule that out either. Sometimes miscommunication and perspective can create a hostile situation that did not need to occur in the first place. Often it is how we choose to focus our energy that determines how other people interact with us, and ultimately, the outcome of situations that involve conflict.