That’s my mood tbh... sometimes when the things I’ve lost reappear, for whatever reason, I have a hard time becoming attached to them again. I sometimes don’t even have to have anything to replace the specific items that disappeared. I just realize how much more of a hassle it was to have them around in the first place. It’s probably better for them to just stay gone after they lose their value to me.
I prefer the decluttered life... especially now. I used to throw junk away immediately, but I tried to hoard a little bit since I left the states in October. I shipped a lot of things overseas with me to Europe, and it was expensive. However, I realize staying attached to some of those old things cost me a lot more than they gained me and never ended up serving their advertised purpose. I won’t be bringing them back to the states with me when I return to my home in California.
Sorry for you, but can’t relate. Apparently, I abandon people easily... and ONLY care about myself My response: I only abandon the toxic ones, but sometimes I just do it mentally without announcing it to everyone. Depends on my mood. Anyway... If you need tips on self love, I gotchu’ fam.
I came to the conclusion that I’m better off being single since I apparently lack communication and showing affection even tho he was fine with it for like 2 months
Keep that energy. You were probably better before them... so it makes sense that you are still better after them. There are levels... some people drag you up with them and some people pull you down with them. It’s a lot easier to rise and shine without those people shading you and dragging you down while contributing very little to your goals. They were probably only feeding off of your energy and efforts anyway. Let the parasites suck elsewhere.
I’m just saying if I wasn’t good enough for him then why talk to me about marriage an our future together ?♀️
Thanks, I am not sure how long the return will be, as I start language school soon, and need to be ready to renew my blue card... (you know immigrations stuff) but I needed to make some changes to my account for sure.
You probably were too good for him... I’ve noticed a lot of those “I’m in college” but in reality haven’t actually graduated high school... dual enrollment type people do that sort of thing to keep older people of value around. It’s probably a cool trend amongst the follower type teens. Who knows? You’ll probably see high school prom pictures of them with the loser crowd shortly. They seem to get some satisfaction from thinking that they could fool someone older into being into them, not realizing that you’ve actually been onto them for a while. Don’t worry... that person is still developing and confused about life. Your separation is most likely for the best. For them, it was all about the attention... nothing more.
You’re absolutely right . After talking to my friends especially my rs I agreed with them that he was just looking for attention and most likely had a side chick