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Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by IMPOSTER_CatfishCherryTomato, Dec 24, 2013.

  1. I was 5' 198 pounds I was medically obese.
     
  2. cause if so ive been lied too but im 5'7
     
  3. 5'6 "ideal weight" is 120-133 pounds
     
  4. First, your gorgeous. And congratulations on your healthy life changes. ♡

    Second, theres nothing wrong with a lil clevage. Some people cant help but have big boobs so clevage is there unless your wearing a turtle neck. But yes there is such a thing as too much clevage, and there are many ways to cover up an still be attractive no matter the persons size.
     
  5. I used to be really big back in middle school, but lost weight and am planning to KEEP it that way!? Also I think that there is such a thing as too much cleavage. Girls that dress themselves in cute clothes are honestly so much prettier than the ones who show off their body. I mean it's okay to show off a little every once in a while, but girls who just wear cutoffs and cleavagy shirts all the time always earn a dirty look from me
     
  6. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

    I always tell young ladies that I mentor "if you don't think you're beautiful and worthy, no one will" I also tell them that showing skin is okay sometimes but it's good to leave something to his/her imagination. it makes it more fun.
     
  7. sloth thanks for telling me im fat
     
  8. Korsett I think he's stating the body mass index.

    The body mass index indicates I'm still to large for my height. 
     
  9. Im not calling you fat... where'd you gather that?
     
  10. but why look at them dirty? they may be comfortable in their skin. they support if you got it, it's yours, and you have the right to flaunt what's yours.

    My thoughts are if you like it I love it. if you're my friend then I'd tell you that your outfit not working for your body or something.

    I don't wear cutoffs but I love showing my legs
     
  11. I personally have never attended middle school since I came from a country that skips to high school thus i never experienced what you guys experienced in middle school. I was however very big though and I felt the need to expose more and more of my cleavage as a "Hey dont look at my embarassing body! Here look at my cleavage" factor. But then i started losing weight and i started feeling less and less insecure about my body and started focusing on overall body shots instead of simply my cleavage.
     
  12. I hide my hips when I can  they're awful to try to hide though.  I have "birthing" hips. 
     
  13. oh thought i had to go on a extreme diet, right after christmas lol
     
  14. Yes. I experienced the same as you LeGen
     
  15. sloth is correct about the ideal weight. I go with what I'm comfortable and happy with and you're healthy.

    I was very petite when I was younger but never a size 2. I skipped that sizebut I've always had legs and boobs. I always wanted to get bigger.
     
  16. When I was in middle school, I was 5'2 and 180 pounds. I was SO insecure, and you know I was at the age where hormones > mind  I would always wear a hoodie and jeans everyday, and wear so much makeup because of how ugly I thought I was.

    Honestly I hated myself and thought nobody would love me, so I just decided enough was enough and lost weight! Even now I hesitate to wear anything too revealing, I don't even think I've ever worn a bikini without freaking out but I'm happy with who I am now, so it's worth it!
     
  17. That BMI scale is awfully incorrect. ?

    Jo you're beautiful as always. 

    Here's my opinion: I myself am a very modest person. I don't where shorts often cause I hate my legs. I just don't see myself as beautiful. Girls can be very beautiful by dressing nice and cute. I think that if you go off wearing 10 sq in of clothing period, you're slutty. (Yes I exaggerated but you get my point) Too much cleavage or rear end is just disgusting. I'm like why portray yourself as a piece of meat when you could dress a tad more conservative and be beautiful. To me though, what you are like personality wise tells me exactly how beautiful you are not just what I see on the outside.
     
  18.  I just recently started wearing a bikini. But I stick to constantly wearing a jumper over it 
     
  19. I agree with you kalla. Majorly. I believe there's a difference between classy and slutty and classy doesn't mean you have to look like a grandma. In the third picture of me now I'm wearing a dress it's cute and pretty but classy. It shows off my body in a way that doesn't make me look like a hooker.
     
  20. I'm the opposite. In middle school I was underweight and my figure was pretty much a stick. I was embarrassed that I had basically no curves, and really, I didn't and still don't see anything all that attractive about super skinny people. I don't know why girls will starve themselves to look good -- my view is, own your look and wear clothes that flatter your body, not reveal it.