should I try and get her back

Honestly speaking, ask urself these qns..
1. why do you think she shld be with you again?
2. what r your best attributes?
3. what hv u done to make happy or sad? can u recall all or any?

Do some self-reflection if u r really serious..

If seriously u decides to go ahead n try, ask urself these qns too..
4. if she returns, what r u gonna do?
5. if she rejects n leave far away, what r u gonna do too?

Ultimately, all the answers lies in YOU..
 
Nope.. Those r not selfish qns.. 
Selfish is taking everything including others n claiming it all for oneself..or maybe I have mistaken u, katedizzy..

What I'm trying to tell my fren here is to do self-reflection.. Not self-indulgence n dreaming..

I dunno if theirs is an one-sided love or not.. But I really hoped both r matured enuff to think about the past, present n future..

I'm married for 15 years n 2 teenage kids.. Truly, real love goes beyond more than anything on Earth..
 
it took my family/friends 5 yrs to get to like my boyfriend

Anyway, from what she said, it seems she felt you didn't give her enough attention.

Ive been in a relationship long enough to have found, if you feel you have nothing to to talk about, you argue and sometimes argue about things that don't even matter, (and sometimes forget what you're arguing about) ... Maybe y'all had these little spats (which are healthy for a relationship actually) and she always run to her friends... Making them not like you much?

There has to be something you did (that she grew tired of) or must have just been a lame bf? (and drove her off)

Anyway, you are young and surely there are plenty other girls out there you can meet... Who knows, one day you'll find the right one

(I only read OP first comment so I'd there's something I missed... My bad) anyhow, you should not dwell If you are hurt by the break up, just go out with the guys and have fun. Over time, you will get over her... On and off relationships will do no good
 
To put it bluntly, assumed that u know of a job (love) that suits u most n u r going for the interview..

U would definitely get all prepared up with ideas concepts knowledge experience to convince the interviewer n win that desired job..

However after u win that job, will u sit down there remain stagnant, doing normal routines? Or will u try out many other methods to achieve greater results n promotions?..

Think about it.. And u will know the answer yourself.. 
 
Give her like a couple days then ask her or fight for her leave notes in her locker or backpack and give her like a small little gift like chocolate or something and show her u love her not the relationship..and if its still the same after a while then i guess move on
 
Alright. I'll be non troll here.
In my opinion, you just gotta ease back in with her. If you go off and act all crazy about her, chances are she'll just be freaked out and not want to go back. And like I saw in someone's comment before just be there If she needs it, that will more than likely have her thinking about getting back together when she sees you really do care and want it.
But eh, might not be right. Just seeing if any of that helps. Or might've been said already.
 
She sounds conceited. "It'll be hard for you to move on.". Or whatever. I don't quote right. But still. Really? I mean really? :roll: I'd say you should drop her ass like it's hot. It'll be hard my ass.
 
Thank you to everyone :), I texted her about what happened and while we are not back together, we are friends now and both agreed that if we still want to be together after summer then we will be. She just didn't want to raise my hopes of summer so she took the cowards way out but now it's ok :D!!!!!!
 
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