Demeaning christians? No, I just don't like when people make the choice. Not hating you as a person, just your choice.
Like I've said many times before, I believe that being gay is a choice but it's also not a choice. Let me enlighten you, you can choose to live your life anyway you want. You can be straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and ect. But you cannot and I repeat CANNOT help who you fall for. No matter how much you want to do deny it, you can't help who you love. You can deny it, you don't even have to acknowledge it but it doesn't mean it's not there. To those who say that it's possible to help who you fall for are in denial and doesn't acknowledge it. Many of us have fallen for the wrong person but we couldn't help it. Many of us have fallen for someone that we'd never thought we would fall for and yet we do. You are welcome to share you opinions about my opinion but just know that I won't change my opinion and will not try to change yours. I am gay and proud of it and this is my opinion upon the subject. I am only trying to enlighten a lot of people on here, who are, as much as they won't like to admit it, is closed minded. As for your question, my advice to you is that don't choose to be gay just because you suddenly want to. If you are curious about your sexuality then I will tell you the same thing I tell people who are curious about their sexuality. Just like Panda have stated, try to look at the same gender for a couple of weeks. Look and observe, if you have a feeling of attraction towards one or more then it is possible that your are gay or bi, or just plain curious as what it's like. If you are not even remotely attracted to any of the girls you look at or get to know then it's pretty straight to the point that you are not even remotely bi-curious. But like many players have stated, it is your choice whose advice you want to take.
How do you know that? I've known friends that have had wives then got divorced and became gay. You don't speak for the entire human population. Some may be born, some may just change. So before you call someone dipwad, realize that not everyone has the same view as you.
I don't say it in the manner that most people say it in, it's more on not being able to accept it and acknowledge it that they choose to be that way or not. If you get what I'm trying to say. ?