Kristi kiss my black ass u thot. Anyways like I was saying he's a perfect boyfriend without his stupid angry issues. ...so like what does he have to do so it won't happen anymore. Take karate class. I can't put plastic cups on the formal dining room table.lol no..
This sounds crazy. #1 he needs to replace the dishes and cups and silverware. #2 omg!!!!!! Perfect?!? Op, I'm sorry that isn't the definition of perfect. That's the definition of anger in overreaction mode. And if ur asking what YOU did wrong... Nobody can tell u that but u. If u "told him about himself" then obviously uve told him about flaws (again contradicts perfection) and his reaction mirrored that. Soooo perhaps u should have used ur words as a tool and not a weapon. And he shouldn't have destroyed things. This is just my opinion based solely on the small description given in original post. You both need some work on communication and you should never rate a person or relationship as perfect or imperfect. It's not that complicated . If u love him, and he u, you make it work. Period. Expect nothing and give everything. It's a two way street tho. That's the only way it works. Good luck op
I just reread second half. I missed the sentence about looking to the present and future.... It's easier to say to try and balance looking at both but hey reality is most are looking at one or the other primarily. And maybe u two balance one another in that sense. Again it all comes down to communication. You gotta both be on the same page on things. Or at least be on the same page in each other's lives. It's counterproductive to destroy items that cost money when u were discussing money with him. So to me it seems as tho he did that outta spite. -sigh- every couple has rough patches. It takes a lotta work but perhaps if u two are serious u could look into a couples councilor? At least a few sessions to get u two on same page and y'all could have some technique to manage ur arguments u know? I wish u two all the luck once again
Awwl. "YOU TOLD HIM ABOUT YOURSELF" so assuming he dont like you for you.. If thats so. You should leave him besides thats not "A perfect guy" :lol: IGNORE THE TYPOS.... YOU'RE JUST DELUSIONAL MY GRAMMAR/SPELLING IS CORRECT
I've been with my boyfriend almost three years this coming June. It's been tough, ups and downs, but every relationship isn't "perfect," it's how you choose to make it perfect. My bf does act out of line sometimes and when I try to talk to him about what's wrong he gets mad, I just do the best that I can to cheer him up. If he talks, I listen, if he asks a question, I answer as best as I can. It's hard to tell someone they do something too much, or make a bad decision that will hurt them in the future, the best you can do is just tell them, "if you spend all your money now, you won't have any when you really need it." My boyfriend is in a bad mood tonight, I usually let him sleep it off and he's fine once he wakes up. That's when we talk the most about the problem, he's calm and I'm calm and not making rash decisions in the heat of an argument. I'm trying to help but I don't think I'm doing much help, sorry. Relationships are going to be tough, you're going to have arguments, all relationships do. But, it prepares you better to handle others along the way, it makes you both stronger, I'm not saying that having an argument is healthy, but they do help. That doesn't mean to start one because you want to. Communication is number one the list of a healthy relationship, if you don't have that then it's not going to last as long. Just try sitting him down when he's calm and ask him questions, anything you want to know, but don't push it too far. Just ask him calmly, and try talking about the problems you have in the relationship. Take turns asking or talking. I hope I helped! -Paige