The fact you have to say that and the way you say it is the problem.
Again, I love that " well one time I say a black person do something nicer than a white". WOW
That's sad! I would never ever ever say something so silly.
Realize this life is hard!! It's not you against 1 race. It's you against the world. The ones who are those closes to you are the ones you need to watch carefully. Good people and bad in every single race no one is perfect!