I would’ve recommended that but it doesn’t always work. Sometimes I’ll have to cancel completely which will lose the reply.
I have now regained the boost I needed to rewrite the post. The world may not be ready for this but by God, it's going to get it.
Could just be my fault. I checked my updates and I have one for pimd, can’t remember the last time I checked
Ok First question: I'm ok with guys approaching me personally tho I can't speak for everyone. Just don't force the conversations if they are clearly not wanting to talk. Second question: if you're approaching to give advice do so in a manner they know you aren't try to be rude or flirty. Then if they continue the conversation after that then feel free to go with the flow and talk openly. Third question: as I said I don't mind people approaching me but I may seem aloof at first due to my agoraphobia and anxiety but I don't let it control me. Other girls may prefer if you keep your distance and they will tell you, or just read the body language and access the situation and determine if they want attention or not. honestly body language is key in any situation.
Because unlike everyone else I put some thought into the questions and don't get side tracked with pushing my point of view on everyone I meet 0.0
A lot of ppl put thought into their answers in the first few pages. It just kinda fell off a cliff later on
Agreed that’s why I don’t look at girls at the gym, don’t want to be like every other guy, ??♂️ Or I might just be shy ?
It's alright to be shy if your a guy. I think it's cute. I think one of the best places to find a girl with a beautiful mind tho is at a bookstore/ library. Yeah that may be my opinion but I think girls that read are hawt and have amazing minds that i love to pick clean with intelligent conversation on their point of view of their own little world.
I don’t pay people, I just pay the gym to use there equipment. I mean you can lose weight without the gym, but I lost a lot of weight by using machines.
A lot of the time ppl in libraries are reading or doing hw. And ppl in bookstores are shopping. I think it would annoy most ppl. Joining a book club that's already intended to be social environment would probs be better
You’d be surprised, I picked up so many girls by just starting a conversation about the book there reading, girls like talking about books,
Yeah good point. I ususually use a few good lines tho to spark a little conversation to feel the waters and see if we have common interest. I usually ask what they are reading and I love it when their eyes light up and they speak about the book with such passion so i get a copy so we read together and then from then on have a stepping stone into further conversations