I would like to add this to my response. Also it’s not just the words it’s tone of voice for me as well.
Ironic, I could post a SS of exactly why girls don't talk to random people from just a minute ago. Do people read this and choose people to target? ?
now that I’ve read this whole thread lmao.. I’m the opposite. I never realize if someone is flirting or anything. I hate the whole thing about how if a guy says hey, a girl is all “I haVe A bOyFriEnd OmG”... like... stfu. If the guy goes up to you immediately with a pick up line or something, sure, but just a hello? That’s ridiculous. But yeah, I’m the complete opposite of that. I don’t realize what flirting is or isn’t, and apparently because of my shyness I seem flirty so it makes for some awkward situations ??♀️ sigh