Yea lol. I may have a fucked up mindset, but if I am really important to you, you wouldn't have treated me that way. Especially, if I didn't do anything wrong, but yeah, communication is the key to know why he/she is acting like that.
With different people & different circumstances I would handle this situation differently. If this is a pattern this person has, and I know that they aren't feeling me as much as I'm feeling them? Yes, I'd ignore them because I'm not investing more time into something than they'd care to. If this is an irregular instance because they're "busy/vacay"? I'd say good morning take assessment from there. Did they respond?.... if so maybe they fell asleep and lost internet connection for a minute or maybe their app was updating whatever excuse you wanna use. They didn't respond?....confront. Hey um, I see you all over social media, but can't reply to me?!? Sounds like there's a bigger issue here if said person would rather waste time on social media than talk to their significant other about how great of a time they're having. Ooops maybe long. P.S. meant for those couples who check their stuff morning & night....rest of the day catch up when you can types.
y would they need to respond to u saying goodnight after they say goodnight ? that's the end of a convo?
Just msg them when you wake up. Be prepared for kissies and hearts. No pettiness. Love fully, and if they don't want to love you back, it's their loss. Never be afraid to love too hard. but communicate openly too.
It appears most people seem to agree no level of pettiness should even be in this situation if this is the whole story and nothing preceded this event... I still think that there had to be more to the story to get to the point where you would feel that way... hopefully... otherwise it just seems kind of psycho to me, to jump from being cool one minute to “omg they didn’t respond... stalk them to see what they are doing... spiteful... maybe I should be petty?” A person that thinks like this isn’t ready for any type of relationship whatsoever... not a friendship.... not a business partnership... nothing. Stay single. Do not procreate. Thanks.
If he does this frequently i have a bad habit of just leaving not even saying anything because he couldnt give me the time of day
Sometimes people just need breaks. There's times I don't even respond to my husband's messages just because i need my brain to be shut off for awhile, if that makes sense. You just have to have a mutual understanding that it's not personal, just need time to recharge. So take it easy, sont let a relationship be dictated by a small checkmark on your screen.
Return what exactly? 5/12 incs, F10? Hardly worth my attention lol. I prank pin you in 16 hits with 3/4 of my HP left.