Only ever met one but it's sorta despicable but also practical. There's an interesting balance between being a gold digger and wanting someone who's financially secure/smart with money too. Anyone got an opinion on the line between the two?
I have an opinion on the line between the two. I want someone who is finically secure and smart, so one day we can have a house that fits our families needs. I am also financially secure and smart, and I want someone who can build a secure finical future WITH me. I think gold diggers are traditionally not finically secure themselves. Or, if they are, they have no interest in contributing. I think gold diggers would want someone to build a secure finical future FOR them. Just because you aren’t secure doesn’t mean you are a gold digger. There is a difference to specifically seeking out someone for the sole reason of finical security as opposed to liking someone who has finical security when you do not.