Lara I have no words.. I'm truly sorry you should not have to go through this heartbreak losing someone you love is hard no matter what.. Hun you have two little angels looking after you.. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm here.. God bless you and your family xx
When a friend is in such pain, you try to imagine what it's like, but you know you can't really. You secretly wish you had a time machine or magic wand, because a utopia would be so much easier than real life. You try to say and do the right things, but you don't know what that is. All you really know is that your heart is heavy too and that your intention is to be there however is needed.
Virtue isn’t a golden ticket to a pain-free life. Bad things happen to good people as often as they happen to bad people. It seems unfair, but in the natural order of the world, suffering is random. To expect otherwise is to sentence oneself to despondency, disillusionment, bitterness, and anger. Here’s the good news: The magic power that comes with our humanity isn’t a shield protecting us from misfortune but an inner strength that helps us deal with it, overcome it, and learn from it so we can still find love, laughter, and joy despite it. At our lowest moments, there’s no light at the end of the tunnel. All we need is the faith and moral courage to find the spark within that, with just a puff of hope, can become a flame bright enough to show us the way out. But what can we do if despair is feeding on the soul of someone we love? We can’t carry their burdens or make their pain or grief go away…….. but we can be a friend so they don’t suffer or grieve alone. Simply by being there – with a shared tear, a kind hug, or an outstretched hand – we can be a living answer to despair’s dark question: “How can I go on?” In the midst of despair, being reminded that tomorrow is another day provides no comfort because it’s hard to believe tomorrow will be any better. But it will be. Lara tomorrow is the doorway to the future, and that’s where you’ll live the rest of your life……..Let you inner light guide you in this this dark moment. "You never know how strong you are, until being strong is the only choice you have"......DMW