Being hairy doesn't make you more of a man. And not having it doesn't make you less of one. It's just hair. It doesn't have to be bald in that area, but no one likes getting a hair in his/her mouth. I have also shaved my boyfriend's butt once. It was hilarious.
Trimming is better so its nice and neat and doesnt get in the way. I hate bare because it is not pretty when it starts to grow back and gets red and itchy and ingrown sometimes. Trimming is he way to go. Definitely doesnt make you less manly
Shaving your armpits isn't bad for a man. Your wife is correct and don't shave your legs because that will give the wrong impression.
ITS NOT A RIGHT,OR WRONG ITS ALWAYS WAT SHE WANTS ,BUT ME I DONT MINE IT ITS SEXY,MANLY HAHA!!! °(^_^)°
For guys, trimming very close is sufficient, u don't need to shave it. Also trimming ur armpit hair is good, and it may even make u sweat less or ur antiperspirant /deodorant work better b/c it's on ur skin, rather than ur hair.
My ex paid me to shave my pubes into a star completely worth it just like this silence it all grew back now. Trim