Well it’s up to you, you either be blunt and just ask the question of like where you stand and that’s the ground you’re playing in. Or if you’re not confident enough I would just play it by ear, but don’t be wasting your time because there are plenty more fish in the sea and you will be missing opportunities if you’re hung up on the 1 person who maybe isn’t meant to be with you
Ask her what she looks for in a guy or like what she finds attractive. Cause it may be something you can’t change I.e ethnicity, height etc. Also you will know whether she’s looking for a typical f boy which you know won’t be worth your time