I'm scared to tell my parents I'm bisexual! HELP!!

You're parents should love and accept you no matter your sexual orientation...if not it's not something you can change And they'll have to just get over it
 
thank you  I'm just confused because I really love her.... and I know I do. But maybe she will be the only girl I'll love... so it won't be considered bisexual... but I do know that I love her a lot! Almost more than my boyfriend  which I might also have to explain to him! 
 
Don't tell your parents for now. It doesn't seem like they would take it that well. It is possible that you are currently bisexual and will not be bisexual when you are older. If you already have a boyfriend then you shouldn't go through the trouble of telling your parents that you are bisexual. But if you really want this other girl and dump your boyfriend then you should tell your parents. Your parents should eventually understand but if it's not necessary to tell them then don't tell them. Don't ask your parents "what would you do if I was bisexual?" and then judge on that. You rather would need to tell them your situation and that you understand that they may be uncomfortable with it. And tell them that you are kind of confused and would like help and are being honest.
 
I once thought of what it would be like if Tianna (the girl) and I were going out, or accepted my feelings. I couldn't help but feel my heart break because I'm not sure if she's lesbian or bisexual... I know she's not Catholic so her parents wouldn't be angry. But she told me there was someone she liked but she was too scared to tell me, but she told all of her friends and they are keeping it a secret from me....  I love Daniel (my bf) but I can feel us drifting apart as well! 
 
Disclaimer: Don't get mad at me. This is my best answer and I'm not trying to be offensive or hurt anyone. I'm seriously just trying so help because that's what the author said she wanted. I hope you understand where I'm coming from.

In the Bible, being gay or bisexual is a sin. Also, cheating, stealing, etc are sins and if you are religious, you should already know that it's human nature for us to sin. There is no sin that's worsethan any others. Sin is sin in God's eyes. In no way did God say, "Hate gays and bisexuals. THEY ARE BAD AND I HATE GAYS." It would be the same as God saying, "I HATE ALL SINNERS!" For anyone who thinks being gay is the ultimate sin and all that, that's BULL SHIT. Also, please don't let being bisexual interfere with your relationship with God no matter what people say.

To be realistic, there's no "good way" to tell them. If they're as religious as you say they are, they won't be okay with it for a loonnnggg time-no to put you down. But, if your parents love you and care about you, they will try to understand you. Although it may take time for them to understand, wait for them. Don't hate them if they react badly, it's just because they love you and they don't know how else to react.

I hope you really don't get offended by this part, but if you do, I apologize. But please make sure you're not "choosing" to be bisexual. If you really feel that you were born that way, then I understand, but if you're attracted to guys also, chances are that it's just a stage or you overthinking yourself. Are you sure you were in love with the girl or did you just love her in a friend way? If you really think you can't help it, I get it, but also just rethink yourself before you make that big of a decision.

Also, when you tell your parents, I think you should tell the one that you're closer to and maybe they'll understand better and explain it to the other parent in a better manner.

Hope I helped!!!
 
Yes. I love her! I love her so much that sometimes it hurts when I'm with her, because I'm too scared to tell her I like her, because I fear she will reject and think oddly of me! Also that's another reason why I don't want to tell anyone... I don't want God to damn me to Hell for this sin! 
 
Oh God goddess?


What is it with people bringing in the CHRISTIAN bible?!


Shut up before there'll be a religious arguement. =_=

And goddess, it isn't BEING gay. That would just be wrong...
 
I'm not very religious at but doesnt god love all of his children....I think you need to do what will make you happy...live life for you and no one else
 
Goddess, NO.

You're a tad bit wrong.

Being gay won't send you to hell if you believe. Doing homosexual actions such as, (I apologize to the hmosexuals. I really do.) marrying the same sex, is considered a sin. =_=

Not being gay. Just pointing that out...
 
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