I'm scared to tell my parents I'm bisexual! HELP!!

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by CallMeNoona, Nov 5, 2011.

  1. O ok thanks....as u can tell I don't go to church  never since i was 4 at least and now I'm 13 
     
  2. Alright! Just came back from church! At the end of the service I went to confess my sin and asked God not to damn me to Hell.... I am thinking of telling my parents this evening over dinner....  nervous
     
  3. God won't damn you to hell
    If you don't feel comfortable telling your parents just wait
     
  4. Not trying to b rude hunter but what is ur religion?
     
  5. Lutherin (idk the exact spelling)
     
  6. Lutheran actually...
     
  7. BE PROUD OF WHO U ARE THEY JIST HAVE TO COME TO TERMS WITH IT TELLING MY FAMILY I WAS BISEXUAL WAS PROBABLY THE WORST DAY OF MY LIFE BUT UR FAMILY ADAPT AND MOVE ON
     
  8. Ya what katie said....sry I don't go to church
     
  9. Just tell them. it honestly is the only way... If they get angry ignore them if they kick you out go to the closest person you know and tell them what happend because you should not get kicked out for such a silly reason. And I'm not sure if it's true or not cuz I don't know what country your in but I don't think they are allowed to kick you out unless they go to court.
     
  10. Katie, remember I am always here to talk.
    I give mad props to you for wanting to tell your parents right away. I was too scared to. Told my friends first. Then my cousins. Then finally my parents. Haha.

    But because I was raised Christian, I had some conflicting emotions finding out I was bi. Especially with the Bible saying being gay was a sin. You'll have to come to peace yourself with that, I myself did a lot of research to pacify myself. But God made you this way, He won't condemn you to hell for it.
     
  11. Everyone that don't like gay/bi ppl are all just idiots So what? You like the same sex? IT'S NATURAL!
     
  12. And I am sorry if I just insulted you/someone you care about cuz I'm not religious.
     
  13. I kindaaa kno what u feel like. im not bi or gay but I also have to try at least to tell my parents something that I really don't want to and in my mind might ruin my life. But for all the people I talk to they say I need to tell my parents. I kno you don't want to but you have to. It's who you are.
     
  14. This is still going ?? 
     
  15. That's tuff if I were you I would wait until I'm eighteenhehe but if you feel like you have to tell them...just tell them they can either except you or reject you its worth a try
     
  16. Ok my cousin had the same problem and at your age too but she told her parents and they where ok with it sometimes you think something will be more worse than it will be
     
  17. My last 3 exs were bi
     
  18. I'm bisexual too and I'm scared too
     
  19. Just tell them that you are bisexual and that you really can't help who you love. Your parents will learn to accept it:)