@remake how many times do I have to say this! It was 2 years ago, we just started dating. I didn't love her at the time. I was at a party, the opportunity arose. I took the opportunity, it was a mistake I fell bad about it, even though she never found out.
I wanna meet this girl and give her a damn high five for breaking up with this moron. Dude, seriously she dumped you cause you're a crap excuse for a person. GET OVER IT. Don't torture her by doing something to her cat to make her think something bad happened. And FYI some cats are outdoor cats, my friends cats live outside year round they're hard core kitties. But seriously, she dumped you get over it and move the fuck on.