anyway op find something you both do like, don’t be afraid to ask her opinions/interests. You’ll do fine for a first date situation just have fun in whatever you do and it’ll show you’re having fun with her
She said she really enjoys movies. Why not just take her to the movies and grab a bite to eat afterwards.
OP tbh.. like if you want this girl to be in a relationship, be confident with her. Ask her if she has any suggestions or whatnot... she'll see that you are taking her opinion into consideration.
That’s what I was thinking! But girls tend to always what men to make the decision. I find that to be stupid lol But yes I’ll ask her and I’ll let you know what happens
I liked clubbing and dancing; my significant other never has, lol. It wasn't the end all to the rs. He took me to coffee at an outdoor mall we could walk around on the first date. Movies are bad first dates, because, as mentioned, you don't get to talk and get to know each other better. Movies are great for later when you want to cuddle for 2hrs straight. On first dates it's just awkward. Also, I'm pretty sure he asked me for my opinion on what to do, and we discussed it.
My thought on y that wouldn't work out is girls who like clubs tend to be heavy drinkers. Someone who isn't a big drinker shouldn't date a drinker. It will lead to misery and sadness
Play some super smash bros on Nintendo 64 but if she sucks at it let her win. Binge watch terrible movies with a bunch of snacks and buttered popcorn and maybe buy her favorite drink. (Avoid the scary movie series) Egg people’s houses ? (don’t do that in the southern part of America, you’ll get shot.) Play Cards Against Humanity (if she’s into being edgy) with snacks and drinks Play terrible PETA games on the internet If she’s a cool dude watch some superhero films (aim more towards Marvel they put a bit more effort into their films; however, Aqua Man is a good one too even tho DC copied Capt America’s shield moves) **Important Note: if she’s up for films, don’t be like Awww yeah Netflix and chill I will personally beat you to an inch of your life. Speaking of “beat you to an inch of your life,” I recommend watching Real Steel too.
If you like the girl, learn a hobby of hers. Does she like drawing? Buy wine and the two of you should paint. She likes to party and club, but you don’t. So find a good middle ground- I suggest get a group of common friends together and head out to an activity in the morning, she should open up and tell you more things she likes to do. Spend that night doing whatever it is. All in all, enjoy yourself and have fun!
Tbh that’s the worst thing yet wtf This is a date not kindergarten “Let’s paint pretty flowers for our night together. Oh it’ll be so magicallllll Look at this pretty rainbow I painted it’s so Van Gogh. Wonderful paintstrokes darling *mwa mwa* fancy seeing you again.”
If that’s a concern, I recommend asking certain questions. Instead of saying “Do you want to go to (food place) or (other food place)?” you can ask “What’s your favorite type of food?” and then look into places around the area, then say “Let’s go to (food place), it’s a good place and I think you’ll like the food” or something of the sorts. This works for things like movies, outdoors related stuff (swimming vs hiking, etc), and even more club/partying (if you know she likes something, look into it! Is there a place with good reviews that she may not have been to yet? There ya go!). I used to never make decisions for dates, my poor fiancé would have to practically play 20 questions with me before saying a spot we’d go to He found that asking general questions about favorite movie genre, outdoor activity, etc. would help with future planning of dates.
Dude, if anyone showed up at my door with wine a d drawing/painting materials, I would instantly consider them soul mate material, ?
Find out more about what she likes to do. I mentioned I liked art once, and a guy took me on a date to a museum. I love smoking hookah, so we went to a hookah lounge. He liked exploring new cities so we took a lil trip and went sight seeing. There are a lot of things you can do that don’t involve clubbing, and it can be enjoyable for both of you. You can also go for the classic movie/dinner date. I’ve been on those a few times and they always end well.