Do you share literally every hobby with a person you like and wish to be with? Op said she likes clubs, I’m sure she has plenty of other interests and hobbies
And I'm sure he knows nothing about them, because he hasn't said a single thing about them. He knows she likes clubbing, why would it be so hard for him to do that, and if it's such a disaster clearly they aren't right for each other.
Why she op have to give in? She could give in, they could agree to something else, could even do nothing for now. You expect a full detailed outline of this girls hobbies and interests from op? He didn’t say she wears shoes so I’m sure she goes clubbing barefoot too in that logic There’s also the whole “opposites attract” op shouldn’t have to change himself for a girl he’s not even dated yet
Again it's a club it's not going to kill him, you're making this way too deep if he can't handle a club, he can't handle her. If she's unwilling to just eat, and he's unwilling to go clubbing, two very reasonable and simple things, than they obviously aren't meant for each other, like very plainly and obviously. The unwillingness for both of them to do such simple things and not be content makes it apparent.
Just ho with the flow man ? she wana spend time with u ? Thn everything will be ok just show her nice time ?
You know nothing more about this person or even op but you’re so sure based on this, they couldn’t possibly fit together :lol: that’s what’s deep
if you aren't willing to sacrifice one night for someone you aren't worth it, plain and simple. With yo "yOu mUsT thInK sHe DonT wEAR shOeS cAusE hE hASnT sPecIfieD" headass
The point is there shouldn’t even have to be any sacrifice, that’s what op is asking for, ideas on what to do to compromise essentially
Also mentioned he hasn’t dated before, presumably doesn’t go out in a dating type setting with girls or even a group, throwing himself into a club setting with such low experience would be the worst possible case.
There is no compromise she don't wanna eat, he don't wanna club. There's no real in between of those two things. If he knew hobbies of hers, I'm sure he would be shared them to get a broader idea on date ideas. But he didn't so he probably doesnt. That's my take on it. It's not such a big deal to do something someone else likes and if you're so against it clearly y'all ain't it for each other.
The actual probability it turns out as bad as you're assuming it will is low, worst case scenario there's no second date, not the end of the world.
Op wants a date, probs relationship as well. So yeah the end of ‘that’ world. You really do just want op to fail here in any way possible
You’ve been against everyone on this thread that’s given opposing views from your own. So I know you’ll continue ?♂️ some of us actually want op to have some luck, not just ridicule
Simplified; Op and the girl her likes aren't willing to try anything two simple things and be content with it. The Argument; anon likes to reach
We just spouting off the same argument and I'm getting bored, I stand by my opinion and my view, that's it and that's all, end of discussion on my part.