Im a mother im 19 and my daughter is four. Just so you know unless they prive u unfit its near impossible to take a child away from its mother in court… Its a scare tactic tht only leads to more dangerous situations for u and it also puts ur child at risk …leave my daughter is four and has never seen her daddy but maybe three times ur child deserves better than tht …your a mom u should think more for your child its not about u anymore the drama is always gonna be there
I'll tell you this...you be the best mother you can to your child. Just because you have someone's child,that doesn't mean anyone owns you. You are your own person. Don't bash the father or his family to your child. In time, as the child grows older they will see for themselves what they need to know as as long as you are being the better person, your child will love and respect you more for it. The other family should have enough respect for you for being the mother. But in any case, you really need to go through the courts to work out custody and support. This does give you rights and protects you. Often times people will make threats of taking the child away when they really have no intention of doing so...it's only a way of controlling you. Don't fall for this. You also need to keep records, dates/times, of anything that would support why the father shouldn't have custody...again this is to protect you. Hope this helps you.
Lol. My mom was in a similar situation as you when she had me. 18 is awfully young to have a kid, and you should've known that the consequences of sex at such an age will affect you deeply, if you aren't prepared. Bearing a child takes a lot of responsibility, and unless you're willing to fight for that kid you won't stand a chance against harsh reality. Being a single mom is better than living a life of being abused, and think of your kid. :/ Good luck!
People she knows what the consequence of having sex obviously... she's going through it! Really she just needed to share and is looking for some type of support and needs to know everything will be okay. Like I said, be the best mother you can, that's all you can do...even if it means reporting him to proper authorities. It's all about your baby now. If you were your mother and your baby was you, what would you want her to do to show she loves you so much that she wants you to have the best that you can in life?
Smh... first lemme say jamaica is beautiful. Ull love it if u eva decide ta go. Second, it is jus a scare tactic. He cant take dat baby frm u, unless he leave town wit it. Amber alert! So stop stressn cause its not healthy fa da baby or u. His mom shuld kno betta. Unless dey purposely tryna make u miscarry. So not good.
Third of all, at least he tryna b in da baby lyfe, tho. He dnt wana lose u or his chyld. Mayb he dnt kno how ta express himself any otha way. He dnt wan babymama drama. He want u n his baby.
Im 22 wit 5year old faturnal twynns. Dey luk jus lyke deir daddy. U kno he split befo dey were born, sayn I was a ho n dey werent his. Yet, I been gay since I was 10 n he was da only dick I had in me. Smh. Lol. Too funny. Yet, Ima ho. Ok. Point is give ya man a chance. Stop stressn. Ure gona b ok. Congradulations.
Just leave him if its not working out. You are not married so he has no rights. Until he goes to court and does a paternity test you have full custody. Put a restraining order on him if it gets to bad. You dont have to leave the country.
Larayza, with your horrific spelling, no one is going to listen to you. Also, if you read through the whole topic, you'll find he choked and bit her. That's unacceptable. Giving him a second chance could result in her or the baby dead. It's just NOT safe.
Larzya, yu are awesome cldnt of said it betta maself dnt wrry bout ppl tryna get on ya spellin gurl it is wat it is. Lls. She gonna do wat she want reguardless I mean I find it pointless dat u keep commentin on dis. She prob not even checkkin it. Its been ages since she last commented on it.
Thank u baby love! I kno Im sooo awesome! N I aint payn dat lil chyld no attention. Smh. Tryna argue bout sumthin petty! Really deary?
next time u have an intercourse make sure ur married to a responsible man or if u cant do it then use double protection or something. why r u doing this to urself n ur child? this message is for all the teen moms out there. being irresponsible of urself n little one is not something to brag about.
Lethalchick must be old... ooooo... lmao. I don't think she was bragging. She said she was on birth control. Why u tryna judge. I dnt think u god. So u aint got no business judgin!
You're one of the most ignorant people on this thread. 'birth control' isn't a valid excuse for getting pregnant by being irresponsible, because you have to be prepared for the consequences (not talking about OP). And how the fuck is that post making her seem like she considers herself to be god? Or old? I don't even— omg
I wonder if the person that made the comment " she Aint even commented on it ages" realizes the poor girl is probably sick and tired of people basically telling her that its okay for him to choke and bite her
baby love must be one of those irresponsible person wit a child now n wondering why her life is so miserable lol and yes i am older n i just feel bad for the child
No. You don't have to follow the, 'im married' crap unless you're some bible bashing nutjob. Welcome to the world little kids. People have sex. Deal with it. That doesn't make people pervs shockingly.
just saying prevention n planning is important with pregnancy otherwise some people live in more drama n stress plus keep on producing neglected problematic kids. unless some moms dont give a poop about it n just wanna reproduce....lol