Personally, I don't see abortion as murder. But that's all I'm gonna say on that. You have two choices: grin and bear it or get ready to duke it out in court. Good luck!
Yeah, I think i will speak to a lawyer and get their opionion. And yea im in the u.s. dont get me wrong i have nothing against him seeing his child; but he's so rude sometimes; and all his threats about taking the baby from me & getting full-custody.
Do what you think is best for you. If you can prove that you have a stable family, and a good support network, and that you're either finishing school or working, the courts will lean in your favor. Keep ALL documented proof of his threats to remove your child from you, make recordings if you have to. All this will help you in court, sweetheart. Feel free to message me if you need too. I got pregnant at 18, married at 19, second son at 20(almost 21) and getting divorced at 24. It helps knowing someone else has been there and gotten through it. Good luck.
Yea, tell me about it. Tonight he said if I don't marry him he's going to start a family with somebody else and not even remember this one. I mean, I was on birth control. I'm going back to school & I do work. I installed an app call call spy it records phone calls automatically. On both sides. Took pictures of where he choked me and bit me so hard I was bruised for two weeks. Just because we were asleep & I woke up having to use the bathroom. He said he's gonna break my phone. (No violence til' after I was pregnant)
Uh, that's not only abuse but could technically be seen as child endangerment/abuse. You need to go home or kick him out. Call the police and press charges. If he does start a family with someone else, he will hurt that woman as well. And if you stay with him, there is a chance you will end up dead. He's not sorry no matter what he says and he will continue to abuse you. Get help.
The courts will DEFINITELY give you custody if there's proof he's abusive. Get rid of him. He's not worth your time.
GET AWAY FROM HIM. Better to struggle on your own, then risk anything happening to you or your baby. If your child grows up being abused, and seeing you abused, he/she will be the same way. It's almost impossible to break that cycle. Leave him while you still can, Sweetie. Get a restraining order if you have to.
So true. But if you don't want to press charges, let him go on and start his own family. And then get your fucking child support. But pressing charges is always a good thing.
Why are people trolling?? This is a young girls life.. I would keep the baby, and stay away from that crazy man. Ignore the mom in law because she just wants a grand kid. If you need help go to a close family member. If you have problems with your baby daddy or mom in law, report it to the police. And always pray... thinks will get better. At least your 18 and not 16 in high school... that's bad!