You're 19 years old why are you encouraging others to have kids and why do you think you're experienced enough to give others a guide to mother there children And lastly why the fuck did you post this on a forum for a game smfh
Don't think she was encouraging people to have kids, more to help those that have them. If you already have a kid there's no point saying 'what did you do that for?' It's here.
Hmm a topic I'm pretty passionate about myself. I was 20 years old when I had my son. And all I have to say is.......it's doesn't matter what age you are, as long as that baby is well cared for and loved, its all that matters. There are mothers out there who are older and could be a drug addict or don't care for their children at all. Don't presume because mothers are young that they cannot cater for the child they create, because that's a pile of shit!!! Don't be so judgemental On a subject you clearly haven't thought through
I am a product of teenage pregnancy and my mom was a wonderful mother as far as I remember early on in my life. It wasn't until my siblings were born and my mother was almost 30 that her quality of care as a mother declined, so don't pass the judgement that teenage moms are automatically bad moms. Pass judgement onto none, lest ye be judge.
Rules say ATA can change the rules without notifying anyone or changing the ToU, RoC, etc. And they have changed it. Just not updated the ToU. You can give out your name and age and stuff. Just not info that's too personal like address, email, phone number, city, etc.
When you're a teenager you shouldn't be getting pregnant and trying to give advice to other mothers you should be at school and working making a difference in the world not struggling through life with a child, when I was younger my parents would have beat my ass if I got a girl pregnant in my teen years! Wtf happened now they have this 16 and pregnant bullshit
Age does not define a parent. OP is simply attempting to give young mothers advice based on what she went through. Why must she be bashed because you chose not to read and comprehend?
I read and comprehended and yes it does age has everything to do with parenting so let me ask if you had a daughter and she was pregnant at op's age or younger you would be ok with it?! She should be living life not as a mother and her advice is not good! All kids are different and do not follow schedules
?See I'm with jake. I'm not against teen mom's bc of the care capability they will provide a child. It's more in terms of the freedom you have, sure your parents might be very supportive and help you, but you'll end up missing things in life. For me, I think 18 and over do whatever you want, you're big enough to know your decisions and consequences. But 16, 17.... Enjoy that high school life. And Chloe for me, I've thought it through...my saying in this comes from being the oldest in my family and having to take care of my siblings from a young age to now bc of various reasons. And I've missed some parts of being able to do sports as go out with friends to this, hence my belief in enjoying that young age.
Age has absolutely nothing to do with it. So you're saying all 30 year old mums are good mums? We all know that to be untrue. What defines a good mother is someone who can look after and care for that child. If the child's provided for, what difference does age make? So what if she or myself decided to start a family young. That is our lives....our decisions. Who are you to preach to us and ridicule us as bad mothers who know nothing about parenting?? You don't have a bloody clue. Granted there are teenage mothers out there who have children and are unable to look after them....but it's the same for any age. I don't see you flipping your lid over all the 'age appropriate' mothers out there who do the same thing. In my opinion regardless of age.......it's the quality of parenting that matters.
pls dont make this a big issue. shes just sharing her experience and thoughts of taking care of baby.
I don't regret having my son at 20. Not at all. I choose to take that responsibility young, and be a young mother. You know why? Because it's my life.
You might be! But you will miss out on so much! This is coming from a war vet I went to Iraq straight out if high school I missed a lot then took care of my niece and nephew because there father wasn't a good guy so I missed a lot why should anyone miss out on once in a life time opportunity's? You have almost you're whole life to have kids and to grow a family you shouldn't worry about that when you're young, you have enough to worry about with college and a car and work ect