Actually no. Its because socially a lot of girls now want "bad boys" so they look cool. Doesn't matter if they treat you like crap the girls gonna want you anyway. Why? Because having that guy around makea her look good. Nice guys are usually "friendzoned" or given no attention. I mean have you looked at society lately. Its all about looks and popularity. Nice guys aren't usually the most popular.
I like my nice guy of a boyfriend We've been together for over a year and a half. I see girls with "bad boy" boyfriends and they constantly cry and put themselves down or they completely change from being sweet and innocent to being a complete pot head or [insert a derogatory term for women sleeping around]. They tell me they want a relationship like mine and that we are perfect. We are not. But those girls throw their relationship problems out to world so everyone knows causing more problems whereas if we have an argument we keep to ourselves and solve it by ourselves. I don't think we are going to be as "perfect" as before since he is joining to navy next August but I still think he's my hero and a total sweetheart even though he's annoying sometimes (shhh....)
Nice guys actually finish first, but when you're a dumb teenage girl, you're too stupid to realize it. Lord knows I was?we've allllllll been there. We liked the chase, the mystery of a bad boy. But in the long run, the nice guy is who you'd end up with. He'll be the one that'll always be there for you. A bad boy will ditch you at the drop of a dime xD. So, OP...your points are invalid xD
Oh Diamond I know exactly what you mean. Spending all high school to date the coolest "bad boys" in school only to get dumped. Sometimes even getting treated like crap.
Exactly! It's all about status in high school. But as you get older, no one gives a crap about it a nice, well-rounded MAN will get you farther in love and life than a bad BOY. (See what I did there?) a man will get you a nice house and a family. A boy will get you to the hospital or the clinic
Now that I'm in college I look back and I'm like why the hell did I even like this guy in the first place. Then I'm like oh yeah star quarterback of the football team. One of the most popular kids in school. Even if I was a nerd dating him would make me popular because I thought I was really pretty back then. Now I'm like was the fame of high school worth almost 3 years of shit. Not at all. Now with the guy I'm with I get treated nice. We are like best friends. We share likes and interests. Of course I'm still too young to marry and have a family and stuff but I'm sure that time will come.
Heading back to that friendzone debate, I don't quite understand how some of you can be so "against" it when all it really is is a crush from one friend to another that isn't reciprocated. There aren't implications that the person "should" do anything. It's a term to describe the situation in one word. Also, the beautiful outlook on the friendzone being all about a guy liking a girl. Girls have been friendzoned as well, it's not gender specific. So anybody advocating against it on the basis of gender (women don't need to do anything for guys) is just looking at it one-sided. And chances are all those people are women saying that.
people who usually use the term are bitter and feel like they're entitled to a romance. That's the bad kind of "nice guy". A lot of times, friendzone pretty much means you couldn't get into their pants. Technically it means what you said but it is rarely ever just that.
All relationships start out as being friends, unless you picked up someone in a bar while totally wasted. I fail to see what the problem with friendzone is. So is it if I find myself in a relationship, and refuse to put out? If that's what everyone is crying about, relationships, especially romantic, are hardly founded on sex and reproduction thus ruining someone's life. People should be more content with the companionship than anything else. But this is assuming I understand the meaning of "friendzone".