I don't mind now because I know it's hard for old friends to call me Meagan when they knew me as Kandy. So I'm sorry for making things easier for my friends. KekesKiwi, If it's so stupid why read it and comment? To you it's stupid but to others it's not. And taking this to pm would cause spam.
Hi Kandy As you are now older and wiser, does this mean you will start to respect yourself more? Self respect and self esteem are pillars on the foundation of closure. If yea, does this mean you will stop sending nude pictures around? Not hating, but what has been seen cannot be unseen
i do respect myself way more now and I have stopped . I kindly ask you not bring up that matter on PIMD. if you can't respect that I have asked you not to bring up that please leave my thread.
Anytime anyone says anything you don't like, you run to a mod and request a lock. You are one to "state your opinion" whether it be rude or harsh, and tell others their thread is pointless, like you did on Kelons thread if you need an example, yet you can't handle it if its done to you. Same thing with Lex's thread. Everyone was joking around and enjoying the thread, yet all because you didn't like a comment you state "I'm requesting a lock". If the past is the past and you're moving forward, and try to say "you don't care" then you shouldn't ruin other people's thread and run to a mod about every little thing.
Jenni, I don't run to a mod about everything. Some things get locked on their own. Haven't requested a lock Anyways So yeah. Me saying that had nothing to do with a comment I didn't like. I'm sorry you if you think that though. As for Kelon's thread I didn't even do anything for that to get locked.
Funny how you say you don't run to a mod to, yet you make the comment "I'm requesting a lock" and all a sudden it happens, when there are a bunch of other threads that should be locked but aren't. Don't bother saying something like " I don't control what a mod does or doesn't lock". Seems odd that anytime their are comments that you don't like, the thread is locked. Doesn't seem to make sense does it? I'm all for second chances, and believing that people can change, but it has to be proven. All I have seen is the same old Kandy, that joins the bandwagon with the majority of how a thread goes, and tries to get everyone to like you again. I also feel that this thread was only made because Slender made his sincere one, and got lots of positive feedback, so you wanted attention and did the same. If it wasn't for that, you would of made this long ago. I also agree with what was said along the lines of, you only decided to "change" because the truth came out, and you had to think of a way to get people to like you again. Everyone has different opinions and different views. I just call it how I see it, which I am not the only one. I said all I had to, and I'm not going to drag this out further, since you will just be in denial and get defensive. Which I'm sure you will have a lot to say to this post, as well as some others, since it's okay for some to speak their mind, but not others.
Jenni, actually I made mine because Meagan told me she was planning on doing it, and I found it interesting to finally be able to be myself on here so I made one. A change cannot happen in one day. Give us time and you'll see two completely different people. Love ya'll
Very true that change can not happen in a day or over night. I just feel that if someone is going to preach about how they are a different person or "changed", they should be showing a change on forums too instead of acting like the same old person. I give the benefit of a doubt. Will just have to see if it is real, or if it just happened to get people to like like "them" so "they" can still play the game. Not directed towards just one person, a in general comment that goes for many of people. As I said, I said my peace and what my opinions were, so I will not drag this out and keep going on about it, and just see how it goes from here on out.
I understand your feelings Jenni. I do understand that change will have to be proven and will take time for the change to happen. I appreciate the different opinions in this thread. It has shown me the different perspectives people have about this. And Slendy, I didn't know that you made yours because of my plans on writing this. I wish you the best in your change hun. Yes mari I apologize for my inappropriate behavior. Like I said I would like if that was not discussed on this thread.
It's part of your "change." I don't see why it shouldn't be brought up. This thread seems oddly familiar.. apologizing.. and more apologizing.. and change...and more change. But Thats just me. Whether you're Kandy or Meagan, it doesn't change how you still continued to act even after you "came out clean". Thats all. But good luck ma'am.
as eveyone has said, good luck. your actions have spoken volumes already while this thread has been going.
Who cares about inappropriate pictures she sends guys that perhaps they asked for? I mean really. She apologized. She says she's reform and moving on. I suggest others try to do the same. Sometimes we as people are so quick to past judgement as if we are perfect. Well NEWSFLASH! We all have our on battles and flaws that we've had to overcome or still working on so some need to just get over themselves. Waitwho am I kidding? Some people's purpose is to tear others down if all possible. Meagan I don't know you or really what you've done and to what magnitude. However, as others have said it takes maturity and courage to take ownership of your faults, accept them, and fix them. Continue to work on being the best person you can be, and everything will be great.
Meagen, I'm happy to see you let down the mask. People do make mistakes, it happens. We are all human, were bound to mess up in some way. No one is perfect either. So if you find yourself falling and hitting the ground. Get up, dust yourself off and continue on the better path. Life is about learning and becoming better. We all go through this process. You and I had our problems in the past. I won't get in to it, but I'm glad to see you attempting to change. I do not hold grudges. Though I will support you all the way if you can stick to changing for the better. Things were said and done between many people. Instead of people holding on to the hate. Just let it go and the trouble in you're heart will lighten. You don't have to trust that person or talk to them again. Accept that they are trying and continue on you're way. Leave the past behind you and move on towards a brighter future. I love you all and have a wonderful day.
I'd say the majority of the people commenting are commenting when they are blind to everything... Except this thread. The SECOND anyone says anything bad to kandy.. She runs and get the thread locked? Sp if you're trying to "change" and be a better "person" don't you think actions speak? I'm not even a mean person. But the fact that everyone is saying stuff like they know what's going on is quite irritating. Kandy if you want people to BELIEVE you are a new person then ACT like it. That's all I'm trying to say. Cause I've seen nothing change.