UPDATE Chat Channel Updates

While I think the update is much needed to control the publings and thirsties, I do think having TOO many channels is too much… but also - my main question is how do certain groups and club communities now post for their own clubs? Let alone, are already owned and grandfathered-in “kinky” club names going to have to change their names and banners around now?
I’m not bashing ATA just trying to help clarify for certain RP or kink clubs that ARE a part of the PIMD community…
 
The new chat update’s lowk overwhelming. I get the functions of each chatroom but then look at it now, trade related chats are posted everywhere atp. I think 4 public chatrooms are too much why don’t we just combine campus chat and orientation? +++ keep the student union ( but purely club announcements), and exchange strictly for trades.
 
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Hey folks!

Today we’re sharing some upcoming major updates to our public chat channels and silencing policy. We want Campus Chat, and the chat system in general, to be welcoming, useful, and safe for the wider PiMD community. To support that, we’re making some changes.

Why We’re Making These Changes


tl;dr
PiMD is still social, flirty and expressive; we’re simply narrowing what belongs in public spaces to help the game continue growing.

Public chat should help players connect, trade, find clubs, ask questions, and enjoy the game. Over time however, explicit sexual content in public channels has become more and more of a serious issue. To keep PiMD around, discoverable, and welcoming for the long run, public chat needs to meet a clearer standard.

We want this community to stick around for a very long time, and we know you do too! Because of that, we’re moving public chat away from explicit content and toward channels that better support how people actually want to play PiMD.

Chat Channel Changes


To create a healthier, more functional, and welcoming environment, we are introducing three new dedicated chat spaces and retiring Pub Chat.

NEW ✨ Exchange 🤝
Trading is a huge part of PiMD, but it often takes over Campus Chat. A dedicated trading channel should make trades easier to find without pushing general conversation off-screen.

New ✨ Orientation 📝
We want our newest players to feel right at home. This channel will give new players a place to ask questions, learn the ropes, and get help from PiMD vets and OGs players.

New ✨ Student Union 📢
Looking for a new crew or trying to get a party started? This channel is your new go-to spot for advertising clubs, promoting parties or other in-game events and recruiting heavy hitters.

🚫 Say Goodbye to Pub Chat
While it was originally designed as an 18+ opt-in space, Pub Chat created an expectation that public chat could function as an adult/explicit space. This no longer works for PiMD under current platform expectations, and it has also made moderation less clear across public channels. Private DMs are different, but public channels can no longer be a place for explicit sexual content. As always, consent and respect still apply everywhere.

Chat Conduct Changes


The following changes are being made to how explicit/sexual content is handled in PiMD:
  • Sexually explicit chat is NO LONGER PERMITTED in public channels. Public channels refer to Campus Chat, all Chat Channels, Usernames, Club Names, Club Descriptions, Walls, Profiles etc. anywhere that other players can see and read. ​
    • Players who continue posting sexually explicit content in public chat will be silenced or face further account action.​
    • If we can confirm that alts are being used to evade moderation or continue serious violations, action may also be taken on related accounts, as well as main accounts.
  • Mods and ATA staff will be using clearer guidance so public-chat moderation is more consistent and easier to understand.​
    • ATA's internal moderation processes will be updated to enforce these rules more consistently and strictly.​
  • Private, consensual DMs are not affected by these changes.​
    • Private messages still need to follow PiMD’s broader safety rules, including rules around consent, harassment, underage users, scams, threats, and abuse. If you receive unwanted sexual messages, please use the Block and Report tools.​
We are also working on updates to support platform age-check requirements and meet changing regulations in different regions. Our goal is to better prevent underage players from accessing social features where required, rather than relying only on account bans after harm has already happened.

Public Chat Guidance Examples


We know there will be tons of questions about what does and does not count as sexually explicit public chat. The examples below are meant to help players understand what is and isn’t appropriate in public chat.

PLEASE NOTE

The list below is not exhaustive, and moderation decisions may depend on the full message, surrounding context, repeated behaviour, and whether a player is using public chat for sexual solicitation or explicit sexual roleplay.

🚫 NOT ALLOWED IN PUBLIC CHAT (Campus Chat, all Chat Channels, Walls, Profiles etc.)

The following types of content are NOT allowed in public channels:
  • Descriptions of sex acts or explicit sexual roleplay​
  • Asking players to add, DM, follow, gift, hire, trade, or contact you for sexual chat or sexual content​
  • Advertising or requesting “spicy,” "naughty,” “dirty,” “NSFW,” “horny,” “18+,” “adult,” or similar DMs​
  • Public messages describing sexual body parts, arousal, sexual positions, fantasies, or other explicit sexual content​
  • Requests for nudes, sexual pictures, sexual videos, voice notes, calls, or off-platform contact for sexual purposes​
  • Offering nudes, sexual pictures, sexual videos, or adult content in exchange for gifts, bentos, stats, items, furniture, drops, money, or anything else​
  • Asking for a “sugar daddy,” “sugar mommy,” “paypig,” “findom,” or similar sexually framed arrangement​
  • Sexualized “looking for” posts, including “looking for a dom/sub,” “looking for master/pet,” or similar public kink solicitation​
  • Bypassing through the use of sexually explicit emojis/emojis with sexual connotations for e.g. 🍆💦, 🍆🍑, 🍑👅 etc.​
  • Publicly rating, ranking, or commenting on another player’s body, sexual attractiveness, or sexual desirability​
  • Sexual comments directed at specific players, avatars, usernames, profile pictures, dorms, pets, gifts, clubs, or club members​
  • Repeated sexual jokes, innuendo, or trolling after being warned to stop​
  • Attempts to bypass moderation using misspellings, emojis, spacing, numbers, acronyms, alternate languages, or coded phrases​
  • Asking for someone’s age, location, relationship status, or social handles in a sexual context​
  • Any sexual discussion involving or directed toward someone who says or appears to be underage​
  • Overtly sexual usernames, statuses, club names, wall posts, dorm names, pet names, or profile text visible in public areas​


✅ ALLOWED IN PUBLIC CHAT

The following types of content are generally allowed, as long as they are not sexual, harassing, or otherwise abusive:
  • Non-explicit flirting​
  • Compliments that are not sexual​
  • Dating-adjacent social chat that stays appropriate for public chat​
  • Discussion about parties, dorms, clubs, avatars, pets, furniture, gifts, trades, tutors, and other gameplay topics​
  • Asking for help, club invites, new-player guidance, trades, prices, drops, gifts, or gameplay advice​
  • Light teasing or banter that does not target someone sexually​
  • Discussing romance, crushes, dating, couples, or relationships without explicit sexual content​
  • Saying you are looking for friends, clubmates, traders, RP partners, or people to chat with, as long as it is not framed sexually​
  • Mature jokes that are not sexual, graphic, harassing, or repeated after a warning​

🟡 Usually Allowed, Unless the Context Becomes Explicit/Sexual

Some phrases are not automatically violations on their own. Neutral phrases such as the ones below are fine unless they are paired with sexual wording, coded language, emojis, or solicitation.
  • “Add me”​
  • “DM me”​
  • “Looking for RP”​
  • “Looking for a partner”​
  • “Who wants to chat?”​
  • “I’m bored”​
  • “Any cute people online?”​
  • “Rate my avatar”​
  • “Looking for a campus boyfriend/girlfriend”​
  • “Send gifts”​
  • “Trading bentos/items/furniture”​
  • “Join my club”​
  • “Mommy” / “Daddy”​
When in doubt, keep public chat appropriate for the broader community. Public channels are no longer the place for sexual solicitation, explicit sexual roleplay, or attempts to move your fellow players into explicit conversations.

How These Changes Were Decided Upon


These changes were not made lightly. We invested time discussing proposed changes with long-standing players, community leaders, and our mod team - folks who deeply understand how chat is used day to day.

At the same time, we’ll be watching how these updates affect the community. While sexual/explicit chat is no longer allowed in public spaces, we are here to listen to constructive feedback about the channel structures as well as guidance on the new policy and changes, and are open to making adjustments there where needed.

This is a meaningful change, but not a final update that can't be improved. Our goal is to move public chat in a healthier direction, learn from how the community uses these new spaces, and improve from there.

We firmly believe these updates are going to make PiMD a much more stable, welcoming, and active game for both our long-time veterans and brand-new players. Thanks for helping us keep PiMD active, welcoming, and sustainable for the long run.

FAQ


PiMD avatars can be quite sexy, isn’t that a contradiction?
While it’s an understandable question, we don’t feel that it is. We are advocates of the “Cosplay Is Not Consent” fan convention movement:

“Cosplay is Not Consent” is a crucial movement and policy widely adopted within the convention community, emphasizing that wearing a costume—no matter how revealing, detailed, or suggestive—is never an invitation for unwanted physical contact, photography, or sexual harassment.

Sexy avis does not mean public chat is an explicit/adult-content space.

Why are you removing Pub?
Pub being 18+ opt-in created the wrong expectation. Too many players treated it as an aggressively sexual space, and that behavior spilled into the wider public chat experience.

Will I get immediately silenced if I accidentally post in the wrong channel?
We know it takes time to build new habits! For the first 14 days following the update, we are implementing a probation period for channel placements. If you post in the wrong channel, our moderators will simply give you a friendly verbal redirection to move your post to the right spot. After this two-week grace period, repeatedly ignoring reminders and posting in the wrong channel will result in an official warning or a short silence for chat disruption.

Note: There is no grace period for explicit NSFW content, which will be silenced immediately across all channels from day one.

Newbies can just block or leave Pub. Why get rid of the whole channel?
Blocking and opt-in channels help in some cases, but they do not solve the core issue. Public sexual content still affects platform review, reports, reviews, advertising, and how the game is perceived. We need public chat spaces to meet a higher standard overall.

Why not just tell people to block / report instead of changing public chat?

Block and Report are still important tools, but they are reactive. They help after someone has already had a bad experience. That does not solve the bigger problem of players entering public chat, immediately seeing sexual content, having a bad experience, and potentially deciding the game is not for them before they’ve gotten into it, or even after they have.

Why not just ban players who break the rules?
We already do, and will continue to do so, but individual moderation has not been enough to solve the issue. Public sexual content affects app store review, advertising, new player experience, and the long-term health of PiMD, so we need to make broader changes to public chat.

Will I get silenced if my current username or profile text has a word that violates the new guidelines?
We have a clear, multi-phase enforcement plan to help players transition to the new username standards:

Phase 1 (The 2-Week Probation Period):
If a mod spots an explicit name, the player will not be immediately silenced unless they are actively posting explicit content in chat. Instead, the mod issues an official warning informing the player that their name violates the new policy and they must send in a ticket to get it changed.

Phase 2 (Post-Probation): If a player has been warned, given a reasonable window (e.g., 48 hours), and still refuses to change an explicit name, they are silenced until their name is changed by the ATA Staff.

Why punish main accounts for alt behavior?

Because moderation does not work if players can use throwaway accounts to break the rules with no real consequences. If someone uses a sacrificial alt to bypass these rules, harass players, solicit sexual chat, or test how far they can push moderation, we will treat that as the same player trying to avoid accountability. In those cases, their main account can also receive permanent action.

Is RP still allowed?
Yes. Looking for RP or RP partners is not automatically a violation. Explicit sexual roleplay, kink solicitation, or using public chat to move players into sexual RP is not allowed.

Are (sexy) DMs being banned?
No. Private, consensual adult DMs are not the focus of these changes. However, harassment, non-consensual sexual messages, underage involvement, scams, threats, and other abuse remain bannable.

Will players be silenced for saying things like “DM me,” “looking for RP,” or “rate my avi”?:
Not automatically. Context matters. These phrases may be fine in normal social or gameplay conversation, but they may become actionable when combined with sexual wording, coded sexual language, repeated sexual context, targeted harassment, off-platform solicitation, or attempts to move players into sexual private chat.

What if I think a silence or ban was wrong?
Please contact support so the team can review it. We know consistency matters, and we’ll continue updating our guidance as these changes roll out.

This game has always been adult-oriented/sexy/flirty. Why change now?
PiMD can still have flirting, dating-adjacent chat, RP, and social fun. What’s changing is that explicit sexual solicitation and sexual roleplay can no longer happen in public channels. Platform expectations, regional regulations, and review standards have changed, and we need PiMD to adapt so the game can continue.

Why are you trying to protect underage players if PiMD has always been 18+?
Keeping under 18’s out of PiMD has always been an ongoing challenge, and now we must account for updated platform requirements and regional regulations for if underage people do make it in, including age-check requirements for social features. As before, if we discover that someone who claimed to be 18+ is underage, their account will be banned.

Players can still bypass these new restrictions. What about that?
Attempts to bypass moderation with misspellings, emojis, spacing, acronyms, coded phrases, or alternate languages may still be actioned when the intent is clear. The goal is not to chase specific words; it’s to address sexual solicitation and explicit sexual content in public spaces.

ATA’s being too strict; everyone will be scared to chat.
Rest assured that regular social chat is still allowed. Flirting, compliments, jokes, RP requests, dating-adjacent conversation, trading, club recruitment, and general chat are fine as long as they are not explicit, harassing, or used to solicit sexual conversations.

If we've missed anything, please leave it in the comment section below and our team will do their best to get back to any questions with clarity 💛
Please work on letting us choose gender on Avi . I'm tired of getting male Avi
 
I don’t think this is a terrible update but I am worried about the amount of channels. It will probably be harder to gain people for LBH or get trades because people are now having to scroll through multiple channels. Whenever everything was in campus, you had much more eyes on each “ad” that you posted. Hopefully you keep improving this idea as we learn this space together.
 
While I think the update is much needed to control the publings and thirsties, I do think having TOO many channels is too much… but also - my main question is how do certain groups and club communities now post for their own clubs? Let alone, are already owned and grandfathered-in “kinky” club names going to have to change their names and banners around now?
I’m not bashing ATA just trying to help clarify for certain RP or kink clubs that ARE a part of the PIMD community…
I didn’t even think about this until I read your post. We probably have to change our club name. RIP Glizzy Gobblers 😭🥀 We are just people who love hotdogs I swear there’s nothing sus here 😭
 
Overall seems a good update, but I'm concerned about two things: it's not really the sexual explicit requests in pub what bothers most of us, but rather those players who lie pretending to look for friendship and then trying to direct the chat into something sexual. I know we can block them or directly not accept any random requests (we already do that), but if we actually want to give people a chance or feel in socializing mood, the risk of unwanted sexual requests or even attempt of forced sexual rp will increase since now it's not allowed to publicly solicit it. I much prefer knowing what a person wants so I don't add them or reject them when they add me than now not being able to know before accepting or adding them. At least the public pervs were honest about what they wanted so we could avoid them. Now they'll be cryptic.

And my other concern is what about clean chat in other languages??? Im scared to speak in Spanish, what if someone thinks I'm bypassing??
 
this is unfortunately a side effect of a broader push to remove adult content from internet and a wider trend of reactionary conservatism. This isn’t meant to be political but it’s the truth. Adults are being pushed out of spaces to “protect the children” when in reality, it’s all ways to degrade privacy protections. This isn’t a dig at the devs or mods, just pointing out WHY this hand is being forced upon them.
 
I guess my first question is whether my ign is still acceptable. I understand the reason for the change, but I think it’s problematic.

The game is called Party In My Dorm. At least when I was in college, there were people hooking up in public at just about any party. I’ll of course respect the changes, but from a veracity/ game development standpoint it feels like you are shutting down a major part of the college experience.

Finally, as a trans woman I feel uncomfortable with men and even some cis women. Is “25+ lesbians HMU” now off-limits? It’s about safety, not sex.

I’m glad to see you are trying new ideas, though, even if I don’t necessarily agree with them
 
I just feel like I should clarify, there’s always been more that’s needed to be done about the really bad stuff, but pub is where a lot of people gather and interact which has now been taken away. Most IGN’s that are inappropriate or for fun. Therefore entertainment. Taking away that freedom seems extreme. Especially for people who have had their IGN forever. And not being able to playfully mess around with your friends on their walls saying inappropriate stuff? Like isn’t that why the moderators exist? To be able to look until the difference between what’s actually genuinely harassment/extremely serious sexual stuff, public versus being playful with your friends and joking around? like no matter what this is a college themed game… It is a social game… So everyone on this game technically should be over 18 years old. Taking things to the extreme point that they are being taken with this and people already being silenced before anyone has a chance to even really see this and understand it is crazy. I feel like there are steps that could have been taken to appropriately fix the issues rather than going this extreme. I do like the trade channel though! That concept is nice and having one specifically for club promotions is also nice. But bring the pub back lol. I don’t even write in pub often but what’s not make the game extremely boring by not letting us be adults. This is not a high school themed game. I’m half asleep so this is probably rambling lol. My point is I appreciate you guys trying to do something to fix the genuinely bad shit on here… But this is too much
 
Can we have some kind of bubble on top or tap thing that lets us quickly access our desired channels? Instead of having to swipe through like 4 channels to reach club chat
Or we could have the ability to rearrange the order of the channels while still retaining (which is working now the ability to turn on and off each channel with the exception of campus chat and club chat) 🤔🤔
It’s just a thought. I feel a bubble would either clutter or the size of it will be difficult to make it for every type of device models (like some have previously mentioned the issue on the size of the characters / bubble of parties bars name and whatnot) for IOS and / or Android
 
This is the change we need!

I'm sure the devs will eventually figure out the lag from the many many amounts of channels (and a few other things ahem) but THIS is how one single-handedly get rid of weirdos. Freaking finally. Thank you
 
I get the changes and reasoning behind pub but all these channels is stressful... like someone else said, accidentally posting in one of these channels is so easy to happen and banners for flashes/bbbs/ sellers is gonna reach way less people now because theyre not gonna see them while yapping. I feel like less channels overall is helpful. Like "student union" and "orientation " channels are not needed and literally could still be in campus.
 
Or we could have the ability to rearrange the order of the channels while still retaining (which is working now the ability to turn on and off each channel with the exception of campus chat and club chat) 🤔🤔
It’s just a thought. I feel a bubble would either clutter or the size of it will be difficult to make it for every type of device models (like some have previously mentioned the issue on the size of the characters / bubble of parties bars name and whatnot) for IOS and / or Android
Ok not a bubble but they could easily insert that 3 like thing (idk what it's called) on the top right part of the screen where the chat name is. And it could open a small tab that lists the available chats. Same way they have one on top of the home page that provides quick links to forums, search and shop.
 
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