if they do it to me for three years id never speak to them again. Three years is too long too lie about your life. Ive been catfished before for 2weeks and i barely forgave him and stayed frineds
I have a thing about lying though. I cant stand it. It literally makes me sick. I make it clear im pretty accepting if you tell me the truth from the beggining. i dont care if you have 2 heads and 3 arms if you are honest idc. But lie to me and i will always question you.
Cat fish is not very nice because in order to love someone else, you have to love yourself. Yeah a relationship should not have secrets and what not because they always come out. This is something I think is serious because it's a form of taking someone else identity. I saw on the news a girl was a cat fish but she faked her death as another girl and a whole mess broke out. I wouldn't date the person anymore but I'd be there friend and encourage them to not cat fish anymore and to be them self no matter what.
He sent me one real picture, but the lighting was bad. I've asked for other pics and he just made an excuse, but always asked for pics (normal pics) of me. I did have doubts and I did snoop, but didn't find anything until now. It's not that I wasn't trying, it's that I didn't have any proof that my thoughts were true. So to all you rude people that think I'm that naive I'm not. I was a friend, not dating. So yea
I always send my real pics, makes deciding easier, if you don't like me only thing it does is lower my self esteem and confidence
1st off for the ppl that think dating shouldn't happen on the internet or can't just get over it. Many ppl get close to someone by chance and some will go for it. I have a bff on here that found someone. He wasn't looking for anyone to have a relationship with but they hitted it off. Then they meet up just one time that's all it took. They didn't want to be apart so she moved up with him. He also proposed to her. Now I agree catfishing is wrong all together. Tbh the stalker bit is silly if you are worried about it simple DON'T SHOW YOUR PIC. No one made you do it and you don't have to but you choose to. Most ppl that do really catfish is bcuz they are unhappy about what they look like. I had a friend on here that talked to me when his gf finally told him the truth and it had been almost a yr. He was crushed by it bcuz tbh he loved her. At ine point he felt like he couldn't trust her but even after knowing everything he still felt for her. He didn't know what to do about it and even stopped talking. Once he told me about it I asked him, do you love her for who she is and can you look past what she has done? He wasn't sure and I told him you may not know the answer now but that is something for you to think on and not what others think.