Bullying.... Please Help

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by Jerk123123, Sep 11, 2013.

  1. Sluff that is a fantastic idea.
     
  2. Thats also a good idea, ill try seeing if i can find one.
     
  3. All mobiles have one installed.
     
  4. Yes until the kids put 2 and 2 together. They will find out who you are. Just because they are young doesn't mean they are stupid. But good luck tho!
     
  5. Tell your sister to ignor the comments after awile they will start to loose interest in her
     
  6. Epi....not the one to mess with
     
  7. Ummm if the teacher knows about the bullying she'll be more likely to watch over them and catch them in the act and they'll get in trouble. If the teacher sucks at her job and doesn't care about the situation tell the principal?
     
  8. They aren't allowed phones, and yes, im hoping that they will put 2 and 2 together, just I want to get a fright in to better enforce the idea.
     
  9. Having your sister ignore them may or may not stop them. There's a good chance that if they stop bullying one student, they'll move on to a next one. Always try to keep that from happening.
     
  10.  I was bullied when I was younger terribly, it didn't stop until my brother basically did the same thing epi did for her brother. My brother told them if they called me a whore or anything one more time his fist would be in their face.

    Funniest thing is my brothers 3 years younger then me but he's 6 foot and huge and I guess they didn't want to mess with him... My brother was kinda known for being a loose cannon.
     
  11. Tell her the opposite of what they say, things you're told at that age stick with you forever if not forever a long time. Being called fat, ugly, and stupid could mess her up for the rest of her life so tell her a whole bunch of positive nice things
     
  12. Cherry, sad that you were bullied but the brother part was funny
     
  13. Oh and also telling a teacher or a principle may not do anything...I got a death threat when I was in high school written to me and has evidence and everything and they didn't do anything about it. Hopefully your sisters school is better equipped...
     
  14. Eh I don't care that I was  I was a weird child admittedly. I was a easy target. I just have thick skin now and can give it back just as hard  make a positive out of a negative.
     
  15. Fight the kids for her.
     
  16. Yea but now everyone's so much more strict about bullying, the state of Indiana banned dodgeball from being played in the schools because its "bullying" (overboard).
     Is that you Cherry? Can I touch dem muscles
     
  17. True.  that was like 12 years ago I'm sure schools have changed since then.

    And domi  I'm better with my mouth then my muscles my dear. 
     
  18. Kick the bullies then leave the school
     
  19. Lets test that theory out ill be the judge!!!
     
  20. People TRIED to bully me, too.
    Tried because I did things that stopped them halfway. I guess they decided to bully me because they got a reaction from me which is getting pissed. But in your sis' case, they see her get scared which made bullies feel better. Like they're kings or something. *rolleyes*

    Anyway, these were what I did:
    ⇨If I was in a good mood, I laughed them off and teased them back jokingly. Which usually made us friends. x)
    ⇨If not in the mood, I just ignore them COMPLETELY and focus on my friends. That made them bored and move on to other things.
    ⇨If I was in a really bad mood even before the bullies came, I tell them directly things that are bullseye to their egos. That made them retreat of embarrassment, but they usually came back, and when that happened, then I do either #1 or #2. x))


    Hmmmmm, I juse remembered something when I was 7years old. I guess I was bullied. I'm quite honest with my mom so I told her almost everything. Usually, when children teased me, she always said to just ignore them. But that time, I guess the kids were harsher than usual for quite a while (can't remember perfectly) because when I told her, she told my dad. So they went to my school one day and my dad calmly lectured the kids who bullied me. We all know how children hate being lectured, not to mention being embarrassed about it. So the kids stopped bullying me. My dad didn't involve teachers or any authorities, just talked to them themselves.
    Well, kids get intimidated by adults easily.

    So in your case, you're the one who can go and just lecture them. And your sis should NOT show that she gets frightened woth the other kids, that makes them to do it more.

    Anyway, goodluck with your sister. Be her rock, don't let her think things that can lead to...unwanted incidents.