Colin: Sam that's not true you know I love you your a wonderful cousin but I am an engaged man I have an obligation to my future wife I do have an obligation to you but Sam just because I'm not always spending time with you doesn't mean you aren't needed
Colin: yes Sam but that's because your not my wife when you get married you'll be at the top of your husbands priorities
Colin: only if I don't give my consent you can get married at your age with your legal guardians consent