I cannot comment. I've been told not to, because I would hurt ONE of my friends', and make the other one very happy.
All I'm going to say is, I love you both, but one of you has crossed the line. One of you has made something small into something big, and has been very hypocritical about what you've said.
It's up to you to realize that you're in the wrong, and that you need to own up and apologize, because all in all, all you did was start drama out of a few innocent words.