An Important Issue

Self harm
Is just as stupid

 

I only call my friends mean shit cause that's how we be.

 

pr-ihavecandygetinthevan please tell me why you think self harm is stupid, i mean i agree but i wanna know your reasoning

 

I have an answer. Cutting yourself and or harming yourself does nothing significant in helping you with your problem. Its more of a placebo in which you THINK it helps when it actually doesn't.

 

Exactly danny.

 

You're only transferring the pain from your issues to your body, and since your bodily pain alleviates rather quickly you feel as if nothing is wrong, when in fact your problems never left.

 

Im sorry Anya. But if people mention me, I'm allowed to reply.

 

^ true aswell lol

 

my opinion is, self harm is a cry for attention, no one makes you hurt yourself you choose to do so. If you really wanted to die you wouldnt tell everyone you would just do it. But thats just my personal opinion

 

You're welcome Anya and thank you.

 

Lets keep this on topic and keep it a mature discussion please.

 

and anya where i live we have freedom of speach, seems like your asking everyone who doesnt agree with you to leave. Your stepping on Americans rights. Kinda starting to remind me of obama

 

i dont belive that self harm

 

is a cry for attention, in most cases its kept a secret

 

I didn't read the whole thread, but as someone who has suffered from severe depression myself, thank u, Anya, for trying! I think the point should be, while yes, freedom of speech does mean u can say what u want, who are u to judge? All u see is what we want to show u, not why we hurt so bad. Do u think when we were kids we thought "hey, why have a good, happy life, when I can be miserable and curse myself for waking up every day?" I personally don't understand self harming, but I have enough compassion from everything I been thru, I know that if I can't help that person, I'm gonna do the grown up thing and shut my mouth! Moral of the story is, u nvr know when someone is at the end of their rope and the smallest, most meaningless, ignorant thing can push them over the edge!

 

Why are people writing long ass essays about stuf everyone here already knows about we dont need to discuss it

If people wana go jumping in front of cars just because someone they dont know and has never met or seen says something hurtful then that person needs a reality check

 

^ that's also true. But there's a nice way to say it without sounding like a douche.